Or could he just not be dating his type?
To this
Like that is a huge jump lol how are you going to go from being into a blonde girl with blue eyes and having all of your ex gfs being brunette with hazel eyes , to being into a latina?
Or could he just not be dating his type?
To this
Like that is a huge jump lol how are you going to go from being into a blonde girl with blue eyes and having all of your ex gfs being brunette with hazel eyes , to being into a latina?
Yeah, I get what you mean. Like that is totally opposite from his “original” preference. I do think that some guys are not too rigid about their type, which means they can like women who look different than what they usually prefer, as long as they find her attractive. As a woman myself, I am guilty of this as well. I have preference for pale guys with light eyes and light hair, but one of the hottest guys I have seen look nothing like that. He has black hair and brown eyes.
They actually are not so different just the hair mostly lol
Blue to hazel to brown there’s a blue to brown seem very different but they are both not so far from hazel tho brown is closer. It’s like, blue is very diff from but not so much from purple. And the face shapes are all kinds similar. So in my opinion totally within just type to be with a Latina. People don’t have just one type even when they think they do — at best they have ‘one type up till now’
How is that a huge jump? @xjayleenx attractiveness comes in many forms, shades and shapes.
I've been attracted to women from 4'11 to 6'8" 100 to 225lbs. Blonde, brunette, redheaded
All if these women may look a bit different from the other. But a might have same traits personality wise.
It’s a huge jump because our skin is different, our eyes our lips, our hair, our whole body, and personality too. Before me my boyfriend had never been with a shy girl he dated two hillbillies and a girl that was smart but drank a lot. Not to mention our cultural differences too.
https://pasteboard.co/jp5MfVVjZBBs.jpg https://pasteboard.co/oQ6KCeG9atA7.jpg This is how two of the girls looked like completely different from me.
And 2 of his exes were hazel/green eyed with brown hair like if he had a type.
You think you're different, and you may actually be. But the way you treat HIM may not be so different. Or more accurately, the way he perceives you and those other women may be the same.
This is why I always say bad women can trick a guy, but only for so long. She can mimic a good woman. But at some point her true nature becomes transparent.
Sorry those two pics of yours didn't load
They work you just have to click on them. We are very different I’m very shy and reserved, one of them cheated on him, the other one left him because she wanted to be with an older guy, and one of the girls he was with scared him away because she was talking about all the people that she had sex with and all the things she did with them. I am extremely shy and can’t comprehend why people cheat. When we first met he told me that he had never met someone as shy as me.
White girls in the South and Dominicans have a HUGE cultural difference as well. I’m also Muslim
What do you mean by that? Yeah that doesn’t make sense to me lol
He has told me before that women are not the same to him because there are many different types of women there are loud ones, reserved ones, etc. How are you going to view someone that speaks Spanish and has a different culture as the same as a hillbilly?
He also never told them that he wanted to marry them but he told me that and we have plans to save up and get married. I think maybe white girls aren’t seen as marriage material by some men?
Because human being are kind of self involved. This is why "bad women" are successful (bad guys as well). They know how to tell guys what they want to hear. Guys don't get told thier attractive typically by women etc. And not surprisingly some of the WORST women are the most flirtatious.
It's really not surprising that he's drawn to you after the aggressiveness of those other girls. I wasn't present, so I can't know what was said. But he's probably drawn to your subdued nature. As long as you don't lie to him. And as long as you are both compatible you two should do OK.
It’s going to be 3 years soon. I think we’ll be good he is my best friend.
Yes same guy and that’s the only guy that I’ve ever done anything with and completely opened up to. He’s the only guy that has made me feel safe other men kinda creep me out. I’m super shy when I don’t know you well but with him I have been able to open up 100 percent and he knows about my mischievous/goofy side.
It’s going to be 3 years next month
Thank you for answering
Everyone does not share the same standards for beauty and we are not all attracted to the same kind of woman. That blonde doesn't look cute at all to me but if you think she's beautiful, go for it!
Just a random google girl
Right. I didn't mean that literally.
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Honestly it’s a case by case basis. I’ve thought women every other guy I knew found super hot to be just okay or even unattractive.
Sometimes it’s the reverse. Some heavier set women I find attractive while others not so much. Same goes for every body type and skin color.
Most guys will have certain preferences they gravitate towards but many have exceptions.
People find all types of people attractive. Just because the person they’re into doesn’t resemble the last person doesn’t mean they aren’t into them. The last guy I was with was a tall slender Korean guy. The guy before him was black short and muscular. Completely opposite, but both attractive AF.
There are attractive blondes, there are attractive brunettes, there are attractive short guys, and there are attractive tall guys.
Happens all the time, actually. In fact a lot of my friends who are looking for women to actually marry are going out of their way to date mainly Asian and Latina women, and it's in large part because of family-centric values.
It's only confusing if your idea of attraction and relationships is literally skin-deep and goes no further than sex.
So he likes different types of women. What's wrong with that? I have multiple versions of what I consider the "Ideal" partner for me. Same goes for this guy. Or maybe he learned something from his experience with girls (x) and changed his preference to girls (y). If you care so much then ask him personally.
Could be attracted to multiple types of women. It could also be that after seeing the immoral nature of many White women, he started to prefer something else, like a type of women that have treated him better and his attraction to that look increased over time due to experiences with them.
I like different races but similar faces and similar body types. So i wouldn't be surprised if other women or even men are the same way
Yea that can get confusing. Maybe they have something you dont. For example, anytime i went outside my body type was if the dude had a super cute face and one of a kind personality that distracted from his body
One of them cheated on him, the other one scared him away because she was a freak, they were all average looking at best, one of them left him because she wanted an older guy, and the previous one before me he didn’t even love her they both just called it quits. He still did it with all of them though.
And two of them were hillbillies man 😭 I don’t know I’m just so disappointed in him. Like after seeing them I feel like this dude settles for anything
I’m sorry and one of them looked like she smelled weird.
A lot of dudes will settle for anything lmao. I mean maybe he genuinely liked them but I don't know a lot of folks dont have standards
What do you mean a big jump? Why do girls not understand that guys can be attracted to different types? You act like it's next to impossible or something.
The best looking girl in the bunch, to me, is girl #3. I'd want to date her straight up! The blond looks kinda ditzy, the brunette doesn't do it for me at all, and the Latino looks mean.
3rd is latina too
Looks like she has some other mix in her too, but no matter what, she's definitely the hottest of them all for me!!
Yeah the third is really pretty
Excluding hair and skin colour they look quite similar in my opinion. So maybe his type is more about body shape than hair colour.
White girls and latinas both have very different bodies. They also had straight hair and I have curly hair
Everything is different about us the lip shapes, eyebrows, eyecolor, body, skin tone, hair color, nose, eyeshape absolutely everything his exes are the complete opposite of me.
It wouldn't be a problem for me the girl in the third photo is gorgeous. I often told you that you're gorgeous and you're a Latino. I can also appreciate a natural blonde, blue eyed beauty.
Sure. Your question is based on the assumption that guys have a "type" and are only interested in girls of that type. I'm attracted to girls of many "types", and I think that's true of many or most guys.
some people do not care that much about looks... so yes, it is absolutely possible and common as well
It all comes down to their personalities.
Just because you are attractive does not mean that you are a nice person, or that someone wants to be close to you.
All of those girls are attractive and I would date any of them (assuming I was an appropriate age - the first photo looks 13) interchangeably.
I've gone from dating blonde/blue to dating to black hair/green eyes to dating a Japanese girl to dating a Black girl to dating a Filipina to dating a Puerto Rican girl to ... Basically, some of us do not really care as long as she is chill.
It is not so strange. People like different things for different reasons. Tacos and pizza are not all that similar yet I still like both.
I've mostly dated white girls because they've been who I've been around and who have expressed interest, but that doesn't mean I don't find latinas and African American women attractive too.
Yes, but it ultimately depends on each individual guy. Some will prefer certain features/ types, etc. I like specific features and personality, race, hair & eye color are much less important.
The girls in the last to pics look better than the first two he definitely upgraded
Those aren’t his exes those are girls on google
I don’t get how a guy could make such a huge jump though I wonder if I’m even his type? None of the girls even had brown eyes
What do you mean from his exes to you
Like he only dated girls that had brown hair hazel/green eyes, and two of them were hillbillies lol
Well he definitely dated up when he got with you
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Your welcome and do me a favor try not to worry about who he's dated and if your his type. He's with you now and he loves you. You have a great relationship just try to enjoy it ok just be happy cause you honestly deserve it
I think them girls all look good, they all look sexy and pretty.
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