Search Results: friend or more

Actually girlfriend or really just a fling?

Okay me and my guy chatted/talked for three or four months which was all on me before going on a date we have officially been boyfriend and girlfriend for about two or three months now but I feel more like a fling then a...

ConfusedGirl0628

Xper 1 Age: 29

Girl's Behavior

What just happend?

there's this one girl who i have seened several times at my cafe today when I was sweeping because we were close to closing time, i started sweeping the lobby i happend to sweep under her chair I then told her I apologize...

Breeshtreesh

Xper 2 Age: 27

Awkward friendship?

I have this friend who clearly has feelings for me, even though she’s never said it directly. I know it, and she knows that I know, we both just avoid saying it out loud. She’s very affectionate and expressive, while I’m...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Religion & Spirituality

My friend said God might let you suffer to make you stronger and more emotionally independent so you can be less needy and reliant, thoughts?

I had a problem at 19 and the consequences were obvious for me: Which is that I lost all fear of human beings, and went from being a coward that was afraid of not being liked, to being an emotionally independent person...

jennifer_bloom

Influencer Age: 41

Unsure if coworker is attracted to me but I’m starting to like him a lot?

I’m starting to like one of my coworkers and I’m not sure if he’s just nice and I’m misinterpreting his actins or there’s something here. Context we’re both 21 and he’s a slightly higher position than me. I’ve never been...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Is it true that men either love you from the start or don’t but women can grow to love someone over time if they are consistently treated right?

Not sure if this is true or not, but at least from my experience and some of my closest friends, it’s never been love at first sight. It’s more like a slow burn as you get to know and learn more about the other person...

Pearl222

Influencer Age: 27

Why do some old friends ignore you after high school?

I really don’t understand. I joined three friend groups but it didn’t last. Middle school they stopped talking to me because I’m too awkward, rude and they didn’t ask me to hang out anymore. High school wasn’t great...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it wrong to stop wanting to hang or be friends with someone who likes the same guy as me?

She’s very nice and helpful but my insecurities and my self esteem can’t handle being around her especially since he is warm with her and cold with me… she seems more up beat and happy by the possible attention he’s...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is my guy friend into me?

So me and him have been friends for over 2 years and are pretty close. We have sleepovers at my house just the 2 of us quite frequently which he is adamant on happening and we stay up talking all night and watching...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Boyfriends coworker/friend doesn’t want him to be in a committed relationship with me. How do I deal with this? And should I let the past bother me?

So I’ve been with my boyfriend for 4 years and we have come a long way. At first we both weren’t interested in a relationship. He had a lot going on with his son (problems). Then I just found out that his coworker was...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do I tell my aunt that I don't want to be friends?

she's not even technically my aunt. she's my moms friend that has been around since I was born, so I've always just called her my aunt. She moved in with me in my mobile home almost a year ago. she's a bossy belligerent...

Nicholas1302

Xper 5 Age: 32

Should I pursue a single mother? I want to get out there, but the sea is turbulent. Is the risk worth the reward?

I was in a 21 year relationship. (04-25) We dated at 17, she was unalived by a someone 12 days before our wedding anniversary. The marriage fell apart and this was the final blow. I'm 38. I have the physical features of...

IndustrialEnthusiast

Xper 1 Age: 38

Girl's Behavior

My friend told me that I have a presence and good aura what does that exactly mean?

I also heard that I had good aura before. I don’t really know what that exactly means bc I’m not really good at sensing it. I know what aura means but cannot sense it. I just thought I wasn’t that pretty but my aura...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Education & Career

Do you agree that team work and social connection might be good for your body and mind?

When I was a teenager, the Toronto Star newspaper used to publish an article every year about the highest achieving high school students each year, and there was one year, where two twin brothers won first and second...

jennifer_bloom

Master Age: 41

Should I tell my friend?

My friend dated this guy in high school over 30 years ago. Apparently she is still in love with him but Meanwhile she has a boyfriend. I really like this guy and would love to see him more. Do I need to tell my friend...

capri_queeen

Xper 3 Age: 50

Society & Politics

My U. S. citizen Ukrainian friend was detained in Russia -- Can the U. S. Help Him?

My friend, a U. S. citizen who moved to the U. S. years ago, has been detained in Russia. He has been living in the U. S. for many years, holds U. S. citizenship, and made a financial contribution to the Ukrainian...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How to get clarity on mixed signals?

I’m in my early 50s. I became disabled a few years ago. The guy that did the work on my car after my accident turns out when we were kids. He was literally the guy next-door. I have the worst crush on him. he graduated...

Ravenmoonshadow

Xper 2 Age: 52

Religion & Spirituality

Does this explain happy poor people and depressed rich people?

When I trust God, my happiness surges so much, I feel like I am on vacation and every normal, safe, and secure thing becomes enjoyable. When I trust in other things like money, social status, friends, family, or luxury, I...

jennifer_bloom

Influencer Age: 41