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For me high school was not that Long ago, and I remember having this crush. I would always dress up and go out of my way to draw this person's attention, heck my one friend suggested that I cut my hair, which I didn't want to do.. despite this I did get noticed, but by guys I wasn't into. The person I liked however liked other girls that were at the Time competing for his attention. And they were far prettier than me. In senior year, I gave up and unleashed my Tomboy side and I attracted unwanted attention..

Like why do we always wait for him to make the first move?

29F and I’ve always questioned how almost every pretty woman I’ve come across is always in a relationship with an equally attractive guy. When I was chubby younger, I thought losing weight would solve everything and it hasn’t. I feel like regardless of what anyone else says, I’ll always wholeheartedly believe attractive women have no issue finding a partner & they have life easier. I’ve been told I’m attractive by a variety of people for most of my life, even when I was chubby. I’m not thin, 5’7 women’s US 10 so midsize but I have that thicker thigh/flatter stomach build. The only time I get attention from guys I find attractive are on dating apps and that’s not telling in my opinion. I’ve been told this guy looked at me/this guy found me attractive from other people but the guy never makes it known to me. And there’s been very very few times where I would see an attractive guy making eye contact with me or at least caught my gaze but I just look away b/c I don’t see the point. I’m anxious/reserved but a lot of people with anxiety are in fulfilling relationships