Always waiting for him, to make the first move , what is Stopping us from taking the first step?

[EricaParruzzo]

For me high school was not that Long ago, and I remember having this crush. I would always dress up and go out of my way to draw this person's attention, heck my one friend suggested that I cut my hair, which I didn't want to do.. despite this I did get noticed, but by guys I wasn't into. The person I liked however liked other girls that were at the Time competing for his attention. And they were far prettier than me. In senior year, I gave up and unleashed my Tomboy side and I attracted unwanted attention..

Like why do we always wait for him to make the first move?

Been there

Your experience is unique

I agree, why wait for him to make the first move

[boggboss]

U could have approached him a inability to take life into your own hands or a fear of rejection is what stopped u

[EricaParruzzo]

I have been moulded by my environment, grew up in the Bronx in an Italian neighborhood. Italian girls from New York, Brooklyn and Jersey are very multifaceted. One minute we can be as manly as th boys (when we need to be) and the next as feminine as the girls it depends. With that said feminism has shaped me but I don't support the ideology.. in fact I despise it. Because these bitvhes are making it hard for a girl to find a man. Bwcause they've scared men off.
I guess my female nure kicks in
So I am aware that our biological make up is different regardless of some Wacko ideologies that running our planet now. Trust me it's annoying.
Any how
I'm about to break girl code, but here goes... As women, we often won't admit it out loud, but deep down, we love being pursued. It's the little things that make our hearts skip a beat - a thoughtful glance, a gentle gesture, or a sweet surprise. We crave attention and effort from the ones we're interested in. It's not about being passive, but about feeling seen and cherished

[boggboss]

Yet that form of dating is near over guys will rarely approach women unless it's a near definite that he won't get rejected or branded as a creep yes its shitty but we have to adapt with the times otherwise face being alone hoping for others to make the first move for our own happiness

[EricaParruzzo]

"Have you ever noticed how some gorgeous women can be so picky, labeling perfectly lovely guys as 'creeps' without giving them a chance? And then, as they approach 40, they find themselves wondering why they're still flying solo. I've seen it time and time again - stunning women turning down amazing men, unaware of the incredible power they already possess in the dating game.

[Nikki1989]

What is stopping you from making a move?

[EricaParruzzo]

Potential rejection, when a guy throws you off. It's not the same as when we do it.

[EricaParruzzo]

I guess my female nure kicks in
So I am aware that our biological make up is different regardless of some Wacko ideologies that running our planet now. Trust me it's annoying.
Any how
I'm about to break girl code, but here goes... As women, we often won't admit it out loud, but deep down, we love being pursued. It's the little things that make our hearts skip a beat - a thoughtful glance, a gentle gesture, or a sweet surprise. We crave attention and effort from the ones we're interested in. It's not about being passive, but about feeling seen and cherished

[EricaParruzzo]

It's almost as if we're searching for perfection, forgetting that Mr. Right might be standing right in front of us. Some ladies want the whole package, but sometimes, that's just too much to handle. Let's own our worth, ladies, and recognize the love that's already within reach!"

[Anonymous]

Unfortunately men will more than likely always be stuck with this burden whether they like it or not

[sedd69]

Just go ask someone out when you like them