Search Results: hurts first time

Why did my bestfriend gave me roses on Valentine's day?

I, 26th year old female has a male bestfriend since highschool 2011. Me and my bestfriend met through Facebook and I noticed that he was friends with my boyfriend at that time when I went to summer school. We talked and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Am I normal when I can’t get over her?

I really liked one girl. She liked me too for some time. We kissed few times, we went out but then she turned me down. It happened six months ago and I am still not over her. I struggle with this so bad. It really hurt me...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

Former best friend always talks how we aren’t best friends anymore :(?

I have a friend, who went through a bad first relationship her last two years of college and cut me out of her life (as her best friend) when her boyfriend told her not to keep any of her friends and move in with him...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I date a bisexual girl?

I started chatting to a girl who approached me first on a dating app, I'm 35 and she's 32 She told me she has only been in relationships with girls but 'dabbled in dudes' she told me she prefers girls and when I asked...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why is he behaving like this if he tells me he cares about me?

I have an online friend and he is just really confusing. He was the one that texted me first. After a while, he started texting me "good morning" and "good night" and I just followed through this. Then, some...

Anonymous

(18-24)

What’s the difference between these 3 guys?

The new guy waited 2 months to tell me that he wants to get to know me better and that he likes me but takes time to reply even if he’s online. Also he doesn’t remember things I say. My ex remembers every single detail...

Cindyasks

Xper 6 Age: 31

How should I handle this? She was very into me, and suddenly she said she don’t know?

To keep it as short as possible. We met online, planned a date, had a great time and planned the next date the day after the first one… then I went away for a week and as soon as I came back we had our third date which...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I ghosted him but I want to talk to him again?

I know ghosting is immature but the reason why I did it was because I’ve been getting left on delivered for hours without explanation. It wasn’t like that when we first talked. We really did hit it off and hung out a few...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do you give second chances?

No, once you hurt me the first time, all trust is out the door. I don't give second chances anymore , but if I did and you messed that up, it's your loss, and your fault became the likelihood of you getting my heart the...

cth2188

Explorer Age: 37

No, once you hurt me the first time, all trust is out the door. I don't give second chances anymore , but if I did and you messed that up, it's your loss, and your fault became the

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Girl's Behavior

Should I stop talking to her?

Me and this girl live in the same uni halls, I was playing music and hanging with my friends and she asked me to send her my playlist so she gave me her number. That was the first time we spoke. Then I spoke to her the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My sister is intentionally sabotaging my new relationship, should I just end it?

So I (24 F) have been seeing this guy (23 M) , let’s call him Matt, for about a 2 months. we met because he’s one of my sisters (27 F) coworkers/close friends, he showed interest and ask if she’d be ok with it and she...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Do you still feel heart broken by your first love?

When I was 18 I worked for a event company. I worked on tours as basically abit of rowdy but I was literally the bottom of hierarchy because I was only a baby back then really. I always got the horrible jobs but that...

Anonymous

(25-29)

The issue is NOT boys vs girls. Real solutions must address the real problem: so let's address it.

I've read up a good bit on this site having never been a member myself - I have heard the countless woes of girls talking about the horrible guys they have had to deal with, and I have heard the countless stories of guys...

SimonClass

Xper 2 Age: 28

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Break Up & Divorce

My ex seen me on a dating site he was on and deleted his profile and his Instagram after the break up, why?

My ex broke up with me after our first small fight. He broke up with me through a voice memo and came to get his things. No talking. I was okay until I seen him on a dating site 4 days later and i was just devastated. I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Girls, Soo this girl says she’s not dating a guy that I have a strong gut feeling she’s dating. I even had a dream about everything that happened?

Me and this girl got on soo well, I had a crush on her and I confessed but she rejected me about a year ago. Then she asked me out to meet to go for drinks few weeks later but I didn’t see the text as I was watching a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

What should I do if she contacts me?

She ghosted me after I told her I needed some space to recover from stress and self care. Without any disregard, she just ghosted me, which hurt me emotionally 💔... The likelihood of us moving forward together will...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My boyfriend puts me down a lot and it's hurting me?

We've had a difficult relationship from the start. We first met 3 years ago but it's it's very on and off since. It's been on again for several months now. To begin with he was lovely but things have now taken a darker...

Anonymous

(25-29)