Search Results: going down on a guy

He's pursuing me by hovering around me with nervous energy, playing hot and cold? Or he just wants me to chase him?

I've liked this guy that is a fitness instructor at my gym. He also participates in some of the classes. There can be gaps in between when I see him of weeks at a time, because of my schedule. He had all the signs of a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Did she secretly want to be with me?

I cannot stop thinking about why this girl acted like this. She was kind of in charge at work, and at first things were cool and I would text my boyfriend and she wouldn’t really mind me texting him and then things...

Helloeriss01

Xper 7 Age: 25

Was this a subtle rejection or a genuine excuse?

To give a little back story, she told me she’s lesbian and thinks I’m physically attractive. She doesn’t want to date and we only communicate when we want to meet up. We hung out a couple of times and hooked up on the...

Ghostwave777

Xper 2 Age: 29

How do I not lose hope or feel down from nobody being into me?

I’m always around people who have bfs, my whole class and friend group have them and they talk about them so much it’s making me feel depressed , nobody’s ever wanted me and I’m almost 18. I feel worried I’ll have to...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Im not too sure if he likes me?

So I became really close with this guy and we've been hanging out A LOT - but recently he's been occupied with work so haven't been able to see him much. But whenever we do have the chance to see each other we have such...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girlfriend's responses to me make me sad?

I've been dating this girl for 6 months now and we're doing long distance. I'm 23 and she's 21. We started off as just friends and eventually started dating and for the first 5 1/2 months.. it was great! There were some...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do I get closure with her?

I cannot stop thinking about this girl. She was kind of in charge at work, and at first things were cool and I would text my boyfriend and she wouldn’t really mind me texting him and then things started to change. One...

Helloeriss01

Xper 7 Age: 25

Can someone please help me figure out if what i’m feeling is insecurity, resentment, trauma or anything else?

hi guys, i know a lot of you that are going to comment are not therapist, i, at this very moment in my life can’t afford to see one so i’m coming on here hoping one of you can help me figure out what i’m feeling. my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

How can I cut off my feelings for my coworker who talks to my friend and craves attention?

I started work back in July 2022 and I met a very attractive girl who also started the same day. I thought she was gorgeous. Being at a tech company, there's very few girls, let alone pretty girls, and she gets a LOT of...

mathsimpforlife

Xper 2 Age: 25

I really miss him?

I know I'm probably going to get a lot of shit for this. Back in November I was talking to a guy off reddit, he and I talked for a week before meeting. He seemed really into me, and we were both instantly attracted...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Am I in danger if I meet my child’s dad or am I being paranoid?

I’ve been pregnant with this guy for like 2 months now. I only met him last year. I told him I was pregnant the other day and he was just crying and screaming about it and being so unstable I couldn’t even believe it at...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy owes $$ now he's mad?

Theirs a guy I've been friends with for around 4 years. Months ago we went clubbing with other friends and he got very drunk. To the point a security guard came up to him once or twice to make sure he was okay. He kept...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, Why do you avoid going south on her even as you expect her to go down on you?

Anonymous

(36-45)

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Do you guys think we're just friends or more?

I started chatting with this guy on Hinge last month and we hit it off immediately. We texted back and forth a ton and he was very reaffirming. We also found out we went to the same HS the same year but we never met. 3...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Is it bad when girls in relationships go out clubbing? Should I be concerned for their boyfriends? Or is this normal, acceptable, modern behavior?

So here’s the thing. I’m out gambling with a friend, I plop down at a machine, and the two girls next to us INSTANTLY initiate a conversation. It’s going pretty well. The vibe is there, I have no issue talking to them,...

WhiteBoyChill

Yoda Age: 25

What would you do?

I feel so emotionally drained. Been seeing this guy for over a year and never feel I am a priority to him. I've expressed many times that I want to go out for food and spend time exploring/travelling. He's 40 an I'm...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why make plans and then cancel almost immediately after?

I'm in kind of a situationship with this guy. He brought up going to get food together this week on Sunday and then wouldn't make plans for the exact day. I checked in on Wednesday and he said he was still down and would...

Anonymous

(25-29)