To give a little back story, she told me she’s lesbian and thinks I’m physically attractive. She doesn’t want to date and we only communicate when we want to meet up. We hung out a couple of times and hooked up on the second outing.
Recently I asked her to hang out after not seeing each other for a month. She said she was down but wasn’t free the upcoming weekend because of a school project that she hadn’t started on. So I said we can meet next weekend and she replied she’s not free Saturday but is free Friday. So I was like for sure, Friday it is. I texted her a couple of days later saying I was thinking we could go to a fun arcade with go karts.
She then sent a text a few hours later, cause she has a full time job and goes to school part time, that she found out yesterday that she has an upcoming exam on Tuesday and she was going to be cramming all week. She apologized and said she’s so so sorry and I noticed her text had some spelling mistakes which lead me to believe this wasn’t pre-written. I told her no worries and knew where she was coming from since I’m in school too. I then asked if she’d be down to go another time and she said yes to which I replied ok cool, let me know a time when you’re free.
I’m not expecting a response soon and maybe she’s busy and she’s not thinking about it. But it was almost two weeks ago now and she still follows me on social media so I don’t think she’s trying to dodge me outright or ghost me. And no I don’t think social media is a huge indicator of someone likes me. I’m just letting you guys know about it. I would just like an outside perspective on the situation. Should I still keep in contact with her and later on should I consider asking her to hang out again? Again I’m not sitting here waiting for her to text me and I am speaking to other girls but just some insight would be nice. Thank you!
