I’ve been pregnant with this guy for like 2 months now. I only met him last year. I told him I was pregnant the other day and he was just crying and screaming about it and being so unstable I couldn’t even believe it at his age of 26. He was shouting screaming at me not saying he’d harm me but how I’m ruining his life and how he can’t live with this and just generally going insane shouting at me. He always would shout and say stuff but he wouldn’t actually go through with it. I sent him a paragraph saying I’m keeping it you can’t change my mind and then I blocked him for about 10 days. All of a sudden he’s completely done a 380 and said he wants to be in the babies life and he can’t bear to be a dead beat dad like his own and that he’s been speaking to his family about it and he’s being nice saying he’ll come and pick me up so we can talk about it and so I can meet his mom but I’m really concerned on why he’d switch up like that? Is he planning to kill me or something when he meets me or as a man do you get nervous with it comes to a baby coming? I’m just a bit concerned. I’ve spoken to the police and they told me he can legally ask to see his child when it’s born. Am I being dramatic thinking he’s going to kill me? It’s just weird how he’s calmed down about it all And accepted the baby? I do have people who know him who said he’s not dangerous he’s just all mouth when he’s angry but I still don’t know if I should meet him again so soon?
Am I in danger if I meet my child’s dad or am I being paranoid?
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Take someone with you and make sure you meet him in the middle of the day somewhere where there is a lot of people around.
I don't necessarily find it weird that he has done a 360. Sometimes some guys think and believe when they first find out they are going to be a dad that they aren't ready but once they have had time to cool off and really think about things especially if they have spoken to their family and friends they do come around.
When I found out I was pregnant my ex also said I ruined his life among other things we even got into an argument except in my case he completely disappeared and abandoned out baby but I do wish he had stayed
My advice enjoy the pregnancy and take photos of your growing baby bump each week. 9 months may seem like forever but it goes by so fast, especially the last month.
My baby is only is only 3 weeks old but I miss being being pregnant with her even more so since she came early.
Good advice here. You have said exactly what I would have said.
Why were you two not wearing protection and BC if you guys didn't want a kid?
Second it honestly could be he had time to really think on it and got some advice from his family so he actually thinks of it as a good thing..
I don't think he would actually kill you but if your worried take someone with you..
You do know condoms can break and birth control doesn't always work.
@DownInTheDumps yeah but it is almost impossible if you are on both... I have never broken a condom in 11 years.. and wasn't on birth control.. it seems like you were probably doing something stupid like the pullout method or not taking your birth control right... I highly doubt you two actually did everything to prevent it...
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