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Search Results: saying no to a guy
Very different signals from a girl in a just few days?
Hi guys , I'd like to have an opinion about this situation with a young girl (she is 29, I'm 43 ), I'll try to be very schematic : - I met a girl at a public gathering with other people - This girl is very outgoing...
Luis14
Xper 3 Age: 45 If I flinch a lot do you think it makes people think negatively of me?
I never thought about this tbh until my coworkers mentioned it. I am naturally uncomfortable around men and in general i am an anxious person who stresses about everything. There is a new guy in my work place and he is...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is it a good idea to work with someone who rejected you in the past?
To cut the story short, i once had feelings for a guy friend. He works for me as I subcontracted him for a project. He rejected me saying he is prioritizing his family (it turned out he had a partner back then) i honestly...
Ofoceansbeaches
Xper 5 Age: 32 Is this sexual harassment/shall I report?
So I have been speaking to a guy and he keeps telling me to "go to his house", i keep refusing and he gets upset over me refusing... he once blocked me as i wasn't going over and he unblocked me after a few days saying he...
Anonymous
(30-35) He seemed so into me and said we have chemistry, physical and non physical, yet he wanted to stop this?
I met a guy and then we went on a date and chemistry was on fire! He really enjoyed, I can tell by the way he acted and then we texted/spoke for a bit. A week later he told me it’s not for him bec I’m too “mature and...
Anonymous
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(30-35) Hi my girlfriend isn't saying a word?
My girlfriend went to a party at school just with her girl-friend haven't hear from her Inna few days. I trust her to go and let her but what do I do if I can't stop thinking about her how do u guys cope with a girlfriend...
Breadman432
Xper 2 Age: 24 How to best handle a competitive female?
There’s a man I liked. I’ve noticed in the more recent posts, where some of my questions were about him, a younger woman keeps popping up, saying things like that he’s not interested and to find another guy; and sharing...
Anonymous
(36-45) Friends with benefits! he says he won’t hurt me and there is no game running here and I want you and only you? ?
Even though I told him in person “ you need to watch what you say because I tend to take things the wrong way”. We met up three times. I’ve always caught feelings for friends with benefits, so that’s why I stop. For some...
Hawaiikai
Xper 7 Age: 31 Simping in real life turns extremelyweird and awkward?
So Im sitting in the library charging my phone & I'm overhearing this really awkward conversation between this guy who's tutoring and simping hard on this girl He keeps telling her stories about his days in college & how...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) He blocked me, I don’t know what goes on in his head?
Long story with this guy, we nearly dated for a while a year ago, then a falling out, blocked each other, whole thing. Recently, we’ve been trying to fix it. I told him I wanted to try being friends again, nothing more,...
Anonymous
(18-24) We have engagement rings, wedding rings, & Hindus have Bindis, that tell others you're no longer available, why is there nothing that says you ARE?
I've been hearing a LOT, recently, from girls complaining about how guys won't approach them anymore but, mostly, it's because those guys don't like being rejected either by those girls saying they're seeing someone,...
FunkyMonkee
Master Age: 58 Which guy should I choose?
So, I haven't been in a relationship for the past 2 years as I knew I needed to heal and wanted to give myself that time. Now, focusing on guy number 1. I have known him through social media for 4 years and we have met...
Anonymous
(18-24) How do you assess my opinion that I dislike very tall men and I have never been attracted to them or interested in them?
Women with a learning disabity and my height is 4'11" and I have not been interested in any very tall men that are over 6ft. I prefer short men and have been more attracted to guys that have been shorter than me. I find...
Usersarepoo
Xper 3 Age: 27 What is going on with my ex boyfriend - I found out he was cheating after the “other woman” text me?
Quick background: im a 41yr old female - ex is 36yr old male. We were really close friends for 5yrs prior to our hook up. We moved in together quite quickly but both our situations at the time made it an easy decision and...
C0nfu5ed
Xper 1 Age: 43 Is it commitment issues or disinterest?
I have been talking to this guy for about 2 months now. For starters his dad is the sheriff of where he is from, his father searched me up and uncovered all my psych ward visits, and the fact that I am a retired "only...
Anonymous
(18-24) My ex girlfriend went from nasty to nice?
In June last year me and my girlfriend decided to part ways but stay friends. How ever, as "friends" she would belittle me and be very nasty in her messages and calls so I decided to tell her that I could no longer be her...
Anonymous
(30-35) Can I trust him to not hurt me?
I was in an abusive relationship with my first boyfriend for two years, he'd yell and ne, choke me and hit me at times or push me into furniture saying I fell cause I had week footing. When I'd jus avoid saying anything...
Anonymous
(18-24) Do guys ever change their minds about not wanting to go on a date with a girl?
If the guy has told the girl he did not want to date her because of a very specific reason such as a big age gap, different beliefs, or they work together, but still very obviously likes the girl, would he eventually...
Anonymous
(25-29) Suddenly he ends things because he is moving away?
I met this guy once and there was an overwhelming spark on each side. I Then went on vacation and he wrote me everyday, asking when I'll be back The day of my flight, late night he wrote me saying he hopes I had a good...
Anonymous
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