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When I know for sure a guy is being a true douchebag to a woman I will call him out. I’ve given women on GAG advice on how to handle these situations after I get the full story & details of what happened.

Not only is it wrong for a man to abuse women but it makes the rest of men look bad. We are already getting judged as a whole in modern society. The last thing I want is more examples modern feminists can use to disparage us.

But I do not call out other men just to “impress women” especially when I know the guy isn’t bad but maybe just socially awkward or (harmlessly) weird.

But there are a lot of “modern guys” who do that bs nowadays and it’s disgusting They will throw other men under the bus when they know it’s unfair but their goal is to impress women. Sadly it often works for them.

I have met a handful of awesome women who will call out female bullshit when they see it. I do not think they are doing it to impress men either.

However I really do not see this often enough. On one end women know that men prefer to fight their own battles. However there are some battles a man just can’t win when they are dealing with shithead females. For example there is little a man can do to fight back at being unfairly labeled “a creep”. But another woman can effectively call out a cunt female for doing that much better than any other man can when she knows what’s going on.

However I rarely if ever see feminists calling out other women who:

• freeload and mooch off men
• use their bodies to make money (onlyfans).
• physically assault men and cry victim when a man hits her back.
• file (proven) false abuse/sexual assault allegations. Feminists never called out Amber Herd.
• Use their gender to get job promotions yet underperform at their job.

It just seems women often give bad women “a pass” more often than men do. Why? Men don’t give other men a pass to act like a douche bag just because the man has “feelings”. Men judge other men on their actions not feelings.

A few nights ago I had a good conversation with a Uber driver on my ride home after listening to some live Christmas music downtown. I honestly was depressed I couldn’t find a girl to go with me. But it’s a personal tradition to listen to Christmas jazz. I am glad I went anyway

Anyway about the conversation. The Uber driver was a younger guy in his 20s who used to run a contractor business but it went under during covid and he drives Ubers full time. He told me he completely given up on dating and doesn’t use social media or dating apps. He has been single for 4 years. He wasn’t some overweight slob either. Not a trouble maker. Decent looking young light skinned African American man. Seems like some girl would appreciate him but he quit.

Anyway we both shared experiences about how we both once out in a lot of effort into dating that was very under-appreciated by women and then quit. There was a study done that over 60% of men under 30 are single now.

However most young women who answered this survey claimed to not be single. Either they are (or a combination of) 1) dating older men 2) in causal relationship they claim “is a relationship” when the man feels differently 3) not in a relationship at all but lying about (virtual “relationships” are complete bs)

Anyway let’s forget about men for a second. How are young women dealing with all of this? They are supposed to be more “free and empowered” but are they really happy in modern times? Statistically young women are reporting very high rates of depression:

https://www.wfxrtv.com/news/health/depression-rates-skyrocket-women-and-young-adults-hit-hardest-gallup-poll/amp/

https://www.statista.com/statistics/252323/major-depressive-episode-among-us-youths-by-gender-since-2004/

My theory is young women have been indoctrinated in a lot of modern feminism brainwashing that brings them a lot of short term benefits but long term misery.