Why do girls like men who are assholes and who dont care about them & its really obvious and do looks play a role in this phenomenon?

[BryanArts]

Also does it work if a man makes you hate him for whatever reason then switches up to do something to gain your favor so now turning the intense emotion of hate into strong feelings for him now that he has won you over by showing you a side that is funny & that he not a jerk while still showing no interest but in a respected manner basically he doesn't hit on you or drool over himself starring at that ass of yours or by gazing into your thighs and not noticing your eyes only your breast and does that ever turn you on being leared at like meat?

[_Maya_]

We don't like guys like that at all. Often the guy hides the fact he is an asshole pretty well and then it comes out after you are in a relationship or dating him. We don't go looking for assholes. At least the majority of us don't look for guys like that. The rest of what you wrote maybe true for some guys and the way they behave around their girl but most friends I have that are in relationships their guys don't act like that. I think you are making some pretty big generalizations about men and women for that matter.

[Nikki1989]

This old myth again. We don't like those guys at all.