Well having "personality" and being a "nice guy" may not be the same thing?
For one thing, I am not sure what being "a nice guy" means, it is used a lot including often being used when you pity somebody being single. I think it is just filler words most of the time.
Second, even if he really is nice, that may not be what she wants when she wants someone with a good personality, she may for example want somebody ambitious, smart, funny and a little aggressive and willing to fight for some ideas.
One thing that I think people outside a relationship may not always notice is, the guy you think is a jerk is a jerk to you but may not be a jerk to his girlfriend. To his girlfriend, he may be somebody she can count on to help her or look after their interests as a couple. I am not saying this is always true but I think it is true more than people realize. True some girls do like jerks, I have dated a jerk who bullied me and ordered me around, for some reason that worked for me for a while but not permanently. I am over it, but that does not mean I want a guy who will just be nice to everybody, so nice, all the time that he himself gets bullied and I do too bc he can't stand up for us. I hope that makes sense! JMO!
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Funny how you bring a picture of that guy and still ask this question. I mean to find the picture you at least had to find it. Why didn't you just read what he wrote. I am not sure about his opinions in general but what he wrote under that title you posted a picture from is this: Women dont want to date nice guys, if you think that you are true. Than he goes on defining "nice guys" as: Giving up all his life decisions to the women, not caring about his own, everything on his mind is about how to please a women to date me, not confident.
He than goes on telling the reader how women want good guys. Guys who care about themselves and are in addition to that actually friendly towards women.
You are not getting it.
Mean, bad boys exhibit personality traits that attract women. Nice guys generally do not. If you are foolish enough to think that being an asshole is what attracts women you are completely missing the point.
Bad boys are more self-confident. They don't allow women to totally dictate the terms of their friendship or relationship. Their actions say they can easily replace you so they are to be respected. ... yes, there are other traits as well.
Watch women... Watch how they are all over the guys that charming, but discretely refuse to put up with their crap. Women beat up nice guys.
The love of a girl's life is the guy that can balance both sides. Some have it naturally, and some never get it. They never understand why they can't "get the girl." Then the excuses start... "I'm ugly... I'm fat... I'm poor... I'm black... I'm white..."
Use The Internet resources available and learn how to deal with women. Dating is a SKILL. As with all skills, you have to study and practice.
Brother.
Lemme lay it down for you.
Women in reality will only fuck and date a man they find attractive. Now, them staying with the guy is dependent on how he treats them. If he’s an asshole, they’re more than likely gonna dip
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You're right. I don't date nice guys. I prefer to get into a relationship after getting to know him as a friend because dating is a waste of time when I already know how great he is. 🤷🏻♀️
the history of the world says otherwise
assholes/jerks/bad boys/fuckboys especially if they are hot breed with the most women. kings, emperors, warlords had the most women. soldiers, peasants and merchants were lucky to have any. slaves got nothing until they dispose of their ruler and flipped the hierarchy upside down
women will always favor looks over personality. don't buy into the nonsense that you can be a gentleman with a dad bod. nah fuck that shit. it's a comforting lie designed to give the majority of men false hope
not every woman ends up with Chad but most of those relationships is simply settling and those marriages end in divorce anyways
Some do. There is definitely a biological attraction women have to assholes tho. Like they wanna be on the same team as a rough bully so they and their offspring will be safe. It’s fucked, but as conscious beings we can overcome these urges.
men should not be assholes, and women should not date assholes. But men, whatever you do, don’t whine…if you aren’t having luck with woman, just focus on things that actually do result in life progress, like working out and evolving your career
Most guys I am attracted to are either former sportsmen or active sportsmen.
Women pay attention to looks the same way men do.
They don't dislike "nice guys." They dislike fake nice guys who are kind only to try to get laid. They dislike boring guys. They are generally not fond of weak guys. If someone is a genuinely nice guy who is not a snooze fest or a weakling he will do fine.
We do. We just don't date mentally ill, entitled narcissists that incorrectly self-title themselves as nice guys.
Nice girls date nice guys, jerk girls date jerk guys.
The issue is a shortage of nice girls.Personality always beats looks. The problem is, guys who don't have much in the way of personality get butt hurt over it. The truth hurts.
huh? if looks decide therefore they find the look guys not nice.
maybe not looks so they want tough protector therefore not a nice wimp.You mean if they DO prefer personality over looks.
But the inherent premise of your question is flawed regardless. Because they like the bad boy personality.Um... the way you wrote the question... the question basically answers itself.
That picture, you do notice he quoted the term, right?
Lets face it, it is always looks over personality.
Most women want bad boys...
Good guys finish last
What makes you think we don't date good guys?
Looks. Matter. To. Girls.
I do but I’m not sure what other girls do
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