If girls dont preffer personality over looks then why dont they date nice guys?

[wannabecuck-2]

[ShellyB]

Well having "personality" and being a "nice guy" may not be the same thing?

For one thing, I am not sure what being "a nice guy" means, it is used a lot including often being used when you pity somebody being single. I think it is just filler words most of the time.

Second, even if he really is nice, that may not be what she wants when she wants someone with a good personality, she may for example want somebody ambitious, smart, funny and a little aggressive and willing to fight for some ideas.

One thing that I think people outside a relationship may not always notice is, the guy you think is a jerk is a jerk to you but may not be a jerk to his girlfriend. To his girlfriend, he may be somebody she can count on to help her or look after their interests as a couple. I am not saying this is always true but I think it is true more than people realize. True some girls do like jerks, I have dated a jerk who bullied me and ordered me around, for some reason that worked for me for a while but not permanently. I am over it, but that does not mean I want a guy who will just be nice to everybody, so nice, all the time that he himself gets bullied and I do too bc he can't stand up for us. I hope that makes sense! JMO!

[msmissydc]

Funny how you bring a picture of that guy and still ask this question. I mean to find the picture you at least had to find it. Why didn't you just read what he wrote. I am not sure about his opinions in general but what he wrote under that title you posted a picture from is this: Women dont want to date nice guys, if you think that you are true. Than he goes on defining "nice guys" as: Giving up all his life decisions to the women, not caring about his own, everything on his mind is about how to please a women to date me, not confident.

He than goes on telling the reader how women want good guys. Guys who care about themselves and are in addition to that actually friendly towards women.

[Kiss_Me]

You are not getting it.

Mean, bad boys exhibit personality traits that attract women. Nice guys generally do not. If you are foolish enough to think that being an asshole is what attracts women you are completely missing the point.

Bad boys are more self-confident. They don't allow women to totally dictate the terms of their friendship or relationship. Their actions say they can easily replace you so they are to be respected. ... yes, there are other traits as well.

Watch women... Watch how they are all over the guys that charming, but discretely refuse to put up with their crap. Women beat up nice guys.

The love of a girl's life is the guy that can balance both sides. Some have it naturally, and some never get it. They never understand why they can't "get the girl." Then the excuses start... "I'm ugly... I'm fat... I'm poor... I'm black... I'm white..."

Use The Internet resources available and learn how to deal with women. Dating is a SKILL. As with all skills, you have to study and practice.

[Danny_dan92]

Brother.




Lemme lay it down for you.




Women in reality will only fuck and date a man they find attractive. Now, them staying with the guy is dependent on how he treats them. If he’s an asshole, they’re more than likely gonna dip

[Genie23]

You're right. I don't date nice guys. I prefer to get into a relationship after getting to know him as a friend because dating is a waste of time when I already know how great he is. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[wannabecuck-2]

What if a guy thinks u freindzoned him and u dont think of him as a priority 🤔?

[Genie23]

That's not possible because they can tell by the way I treat them when I like someone. I give them time everyday and treat them different than I treat my other friends.

[wannabecuck-2]

Happened to me once i bloked someone for 3 times they wanted to be freinds. That made me think they want me as an option. I lost feelings for that person nd now i dont have feelings for them.

[wannabecuck-2]

Not rvery guy grts that some thing u kust freind zone them. Men work by logic not emotion unlike women.

[Genie23]

Or maybe you're the only guy who gets confused because the ones I liked eventually we got into a relationship without me initiating dates or relationship.

[wannabecuck-2]

🙂some guys are straight fprwward they dont play games and hints they are what they Re.

[Genie23]

Who are talking about playing games? If you assume the guys I've been in a relationship with and me were playing games. You seriously need to reread my comments before making statements like that because what you said makes no sense, to be honest. The question was about good guys. I said I get into relationship with one and I clearly said I GOT into relationship because it was OBVIOUS that I liked them too. Not everything needs to be said. It can be felt deep in heart but obviously you're inexperienced so you don't get what I'm trying to say here. When you grow older and meet someone who's into you, you'll understand what I meant. Good luck

[wannabecuck-2]

🙂 being clear and not stating stuff in context of understanding is playing for idiots like me. Just like when u dont state anything in terms of anything it is considered as cheating for some people its a thing of playing games. Bad people play games irrespective of gender

[Genie23]

Learn English and learn to read well. You're obviously not smart enough to understand what I said.

[inhua]

the history of the world says otherwise

assholes/jerks/bad boys/fuckboys especially if they are hot breed with the most women. kings, emperors, warlords had the most women. soldiers, peasants and merchants were lucky to have any. slaves got nothing until they dispose of their ruler and flipped the hierarchy upside down

women will always favor looks over personality. don't buy into the nonsense that you can be a gentleman with a dad bod. nah fuck that shit. it's a comforting lie designed to give the majority of men false hope

not every woman ends up with Chad but most of those relationships is simply settling and those marriages end in divorce anyways

[D_Bone_Steak]

You're fucking right!

[Shamalien]

Some do. There is definitely a biological attraction women have to assholes tho. Like they wanna be on the same team as a rough bully so they and their offspring will be safe. It’s fucked, but as conscious beings we can overcome these urges.

men should not be assholes, and women should not date assholes. But men, whatever you do, don’t whine…if you aren’t having luck with woman, just focus on things that actually do result in life progress, like working out and evolving your career

[D_Bone_Steak]

Truth! Hit the fucking weights and keep your problems to yourself. I would go further and say don't become an emotional tampon for a woman and waste your time.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Most guys I am attracted to are either former sportsmen or active sportsmen.

Women pay attention to looks the same way men do.

[wannabecuck-2]

Thanks at least someone who speaks truth

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

And plus, I would rather stay single for a very long time than have a man who is below my standards.

[wannabecuck-2]

Everyone has criteria tbh i hate it when peeps sugar coat it than not being honest

[wannabecuck-2]

👀 women can be single and still get attention tbh i feel

[LazerBean]

We do. We just don't date mentally ill, entitled narcissists that incorrectly self-title themselves as nice guys.

[wannabecuck-2]

Not most guys expect even. Just seeing situation of my neice freinds being single and women just dont even look at them as if they dont exist

[wannabecuck-2]

And ps am not calling myslef nice. If ur targetting me.

[LazerBean]

All the men I know who are nice and are not obviously mentally ill or obese are married.

[wannabecuck-2]

I don't know my pals are really gem of people. I don't know man i sometimes feel judgement of my area girls is really bad or maybe i just think too shallow about them.

[wannabecuck-2]

🙄or maybe just at young age women like their hearts getting broken by tall dudes

[LazerBean]

Tbh I doubt any decent people would be friends with a cuck. That's the opposite of who nice guys hang around with

[wannabecuck-2]

👀 who would advertise that theyre cuck in real life?

[wannabecuck-2]

No wonder u love arguing

[LazerBean]

You don't have to advertise it, good people know a hoe when they see one

[wannabecuck-2]

👀ur comparin me to a desprate ok got it 👀 unlike me calling u anything says a lot about u

[LazerBean]

I'm sorry that facts hurt you 🤷🏽‍♀️

[wannabecuck-2]

🤔 ?

[wannabecuck-2]

I still trying to rocess what hurt my opinion about u being scum and being judgmental?

[wannabecuck-2]

I still trying to rocess what hurt me. my opinion about u being scum and being judgmental? idont think that hurt me it made me lose respect for u thou 🙏

[LazerBean]

I'm definitely judgmental, I openly admit that I would never consider associating with someone as inferior to me as you are. I don't know what makes you think it's smart for you to call me scum when you are such a scumbag that you feel the need to hide from your friends your scummy cucking.

[wannabecuck-2]

👀 do u talk ur bed life to ur freinds?

[wannabecuck-2]

I think only idiots do

[wannabecuck-2]

Nah i never called it smart i called it accepting how things are

[wannabecuck-2]

That peeps like u can never comprihend

[wannabecuck-2]

🤔 scum bag? What basis did u frame that opinion may i know at least i ain't talking about being angry i form my opinion on basis unlike u who judge people on usles basis

[LazerBean]

I certainly don't hide the people who I have sex with, AKA only my husband. Can you say the same?

[wannabecuck-2]

🤔 only hiding is the base u judge others?

[LazerBean]

Anyone with a body count of more than two and is into cucking is scum+ mentally challenged. It's that simple

[LazerBean]

And so you're not going to answer the question?

[wannabecuck-2]

🙄 should i care about ur opinion in first place? Id rather listen and move on

[wannabecuck-2]

Which question?

[wannabecuck-2]

Being a sub missive is a common kink in commen me judging women for their kink means something is wrong with me not them

[wannabecuck-2]

Only idiots judge or form opinion without understanding. Matures understand accept move on

[LazerBean]

Genuine question, are you just lazy or are you really just too stupid to scroll up and look at the only question I've asked you? Regardless, I will copy and paste it for you.

"I certainly don't hide the people who I have sex with, AKA only my husband. Can you say the same?"

And being judgmental is biologically required for women to produce strong offspring, since reproducing with weak men like you would make their children weak and inferior.

[wannabecuck-2]

I d rather listen understand and move on than rather form judgmental opinions like idiots like u

[LazerBean]

Then move on. It's not like a bastard child like you is capable of learning logic and morals anyway.

[wannabecuck-2]

Nvm i am no one to call anyone idiot smh some scums make me call idiots i dont wanna become like u so i take the word back

[LazerBean]

It doesn't really matter since you're already a cuck so it's not like you can get any lower.

[wannabecuck-2]

👀 really this was all u had to say? Thats the only logic u have to answer that question

[wannabecuck-2]

Like it was better u answered to point than putting ur bias aside

[LazerBean]

You didn't ask a question. I'm sorry that you're too stupid to even know that. Why don't you go ahead and copy and paste the question that you asked though, because I know you're going to deny it. Even though you never answer to the question that I asked before.

[wannabecuck-2]

🤔 . My freinds are nice they dont get any women. U quoted so called nice guys as narcisists.

[wannabecuck-2]

And then u moved on to judging my freinds from me

[LazerBean]

I already answered your question, but I'll say it again since you're slow. You do not have any nice friends. Nice people would never associate with you. Your friends are scum like you are and that's why girls avoid them.

[wannabecuck-2]

And then u started blabbering ur emotions than directly answering the question. Of why dont decent people or guys end up being taken first. Like the loyal honest ones.

[wannabecuck-2]

Without ego types ones

[wannabecuck-2]

Women know theyre trustable use them and walk past em like they dont exist and keep em engaged while they use players.

[LazerBean]

It's not emotions, it's facts. Every decent guy I know has able to easily find a wife before he hit 24. There has not been any exceptions. Every single one of them.

[wannabecuck-2]

Not all qomen are like that but we all know trustable peeps are naive and women get bored of em quick

[wannabecuck-2]

I don't know man in my country gender ratio is fucked up my freinds are single whereas my women freinds have had many bfs

[wannabecuck-2]

I dont envy em but i see their heart getting broken and feel bad for em being rawarded like that for being loyal. On other hand gals are living their life with options

[LazerBean]

Your friends are not virgins, right?

[wannabecuck-2]

They are

[wannabecuck-2]

Most of guys in my groups are virgins most peeps have bad misconseptions about indian guys but indian are mostly virgins.

[LazerBean]

They keep hanging with hoes but they are virgins? That's very doubtable. But I suppose it's possible if they are fatherless

[LazerBean]

Oh y'all are Indian, that's explains everything.

[wannabecuck-2]

👀 indian doods are good man we mostly have sex with intent to marry its bcz of few scamers and percerts women think bad of us

[wannabecuck-2]

By that logic i should also stereo thpe women of every nation

[LazerBean]

Y'all have a really bad reputation, yeah.

[wannabecuck-2]

See again ur being judgmental. No use debating peeps like u smh

[LazerBean]

You can stereotype woman however you want. I don't care and it doesn't affect me.

[wannabecuck-2]

Would u be happy if u saw ur greinds getting abondeoned for being loyal and her ex having being hit on by many ladies. ? Trust me it hurts for the one that goes through it. Many guys do sucide or get into depression and our parents dont even feel like asking all they want us is to earn they dont care whether ir happy or sad

[wannabecuck-2]

You can stereotype woman however you want. I don't care and it doesn't affect me. . I stero type on basis of people being judgmental

[LazerBean]

Out of all the good women I know, only one of them is having trouble finding a man and it is 100% her own fault. I have no more sympathy left to offer someone who makes poor choices. We adults are in control of our own lives, and if your friends are all really that incompetent and feminine than I am very glad that they are not reproducing.

[LazerBean]

So you're being judgmental about me being judgmental? Pretty hypocritical of you.

[wannabecuck-2]

👀 forming an opinion on basis of what u feel than rather logic.

[wannabecuck-2]

Again u formed an opinion on basis of emotion than rather meeting my freinds or knowing about them u urself are being illogical rn. Like imagine saying bad about ur freinds

[wannabecuck-2]

wouldn't it get u angry like if u aren't angry for someone speaking against ur freinds than what kind of a freind are u?

[LazerBean]

That's what you're doing. I know that factually, promiscuous people are inferior and their reproduction should be discouraged so that they do not continue to be a disease on society.

[LazerBean]

I don't get angry about facts. That's what I'm saying. I'm not going to get upset even if someone I like is getting what they asked for.

[wannabecuck-2]

🙄🙏 u dont know my freinds. Stop forming opinion on them till me it was ok not on them.

[wannabecuck-2]

Yep i agree its a weird kink and their reproduction should be stopped ur right on that

[wannabecuck-2]

Not my freinds 🙄 tho. 🙄

[LiamJHayden]

They don't dislike "nice guys." They dislike fake nice guys who are kind only to try to get laid. They dislike boring guys. They are generally not fond of weak guys. If someone is a genuinely nice guy who is not a snooze fest or a weakling he will do fine.

[Nikki1989]

Personality always beats looks. The problem is, guys who don't have much in the way of personality get butt hurt over it. The truth hurts.

[wannabecuck-2]

Truth? I ve never seen a lady with great personality.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Nice girls date nice guys, jerk girls date jerk guys.

The issue is a shortage of nice girls.

[strateguy632]

huh? if looks decide therefore they find the look guys not nice.
maybe not looks so they want tough protector therefore not a nice wimp.

[Jamie05rhs]

You mean if they DO prefer personality over looks.

But the inherent premise of your question is flawed regardless. Because they like the bad boy personality.

[wannabecuck-2]

Bad boy at times when they give em attention and affection. Thats what makes them apealing.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Um... the way you wrote the question... the question basically answers itself.

[Ms_Facesitter]

That picture, you do notice he quoted the term, right?

[exitseven]

Lets face it, it is always looks over personality.

[Greenbins]

Most women want bad boys...

Good guys finish last

[wannabecuck-2]

Even with whome they finish they aren't worth it

[Agape93]

What makes you think we don't date good guys?

[Spade_01]

Looks. Matter. To. Girls.

[Anonymous]

I do but I’m not sure what other girls do