My sister is 2 years older than me and has a personality disorder (borderline). She never really liked me, but it got worse over the years. I will be more or less alright for a couple of months and then she would find a reason to scream at me, run after me or just make a hurtful comment. Then my mother would explain her behaviour with her disorder and ask me to give her another chance. This has happened over and over again. For months, she has been sighing really loudly each time she sees me and when my mom talks to me she does everything to get my mom to go to see her instead. A couple of months ago, she hit me with a wooden spoon without me doing anything to deserve that. After that I decided to stop trying to have a good relationship with her cause it didn't help anyway and it was just draining me mentally. We haven't really spoken since that incident. Today, I was preparing to leave for school and I scared her cause she didn't know I was coming around the corner. She screamed at me so I screamed back and then she wanted to force me to talk to her. I repeated over and over again: I don't want to talk to you. I don't want to talk to her without my mom around cause she acts impulsively and scares me. So I ran back upstairs to calm down a bit, but had to go back down cause I had to go to school. When I went to put on my shoes she followed me and cornered me. She took my second shoe away and was shouting at me to why I wouldn't talk to her and that I was ruining everything. I told her to back off, but she didn't seem to understand and cornered me even more instead. I decided to take my boots and to run for it, which she really didn't like: she yelled that she hated me over and over again. I really don't know what to do anymore. It's really exhausting. I would like to move out, but I'm not financially stable enough. Do you guys have any tips on what to do?
My sister is mean and scares me, what should I do?
