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I’m not going to go into huge detail, but I have a huge crush on a guy at work.

We have been talking since the end of December and as weeks have gone by, our interactions have got slightly more intense.

So something happened today. We were walking towards each other and he was staring at me. He tripped up and stumbled ever so slightly and I said “did you just trip?” And he said

“Yeah, I almost fell head over heels into you, I would have knocked a tooth out”

then I said “please don’t do that” and he said “I will next time”

I asked “are you going to fall into me next time?” And he smiled and nodded enthusiastically.

Maybe I’m reading too much into it but his choice of words felt deliberate “I almost fell head over heels into you”

Is he saying he has feelings for me / is falling for me?

According to an article written by Katya Koval, several men stated that they no longer approach women due to the following:

“Women want to be approached. But if you approach them and they don’t like you or think you’re attractive enough, you will be called a creep.” — Jake.

Roberto, 42 years old and single, was asked why he didn’t dare approach women. He replied, “I have never gotten a clear signal from a woman. My female friends have pointed out positive body language as signals, but they are too ambiguous for me to act on.”

Kane, 35 years old and single, shares, “I don’t approach women anymore because it’s too tedious with little chance of payoff. It’s either they ignore you, reject you, shame you, or, worse, accuse you of molestation. If a woman likes me, she should make an effort to approach me.”

Mel, 29 years old, shares, “Women demanding men to chase them while they never approach men themselves is what you could call ‘entitlement.’ I don’t mean that women should start asking men out, but just approaching us to talk would be nice. For women who want equality: If he doesn’t approach you, approach him.”

Evi, 23 years old, claims “It’s easier to get women and land a date online than cold approaching them. I’m currently in College and our campus consists of 80% women. It’s not necessary to approach women anymore.”

Nathan, 22 years old, admits, “It’s mainly the negative consequences that’s stopping me. It’s scary when you hear stories about guys and fake accusations on campus. I worked hard to get into College. I’m not going to risk getting expelled for something I didn’t do.”

katya-koval.medium.com/why-men-dont-approach-women-anymore-159975861c08