What do I do with my construction worker boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

I am currently having a difficult time in my relationship. My boyfriend 26 and I 28 f we have been together 3 years are not communicating very good. He works construction and he loves his job but he barely communicates with me he always says he's too tired to talk to me but he gets off work at 4 every day and then I try to text him ( his preferred contact method) around 4 and he won't text me back until 9 or if at all and it's really depressing me. When I try to bring it up he says he just falls asleep. Also when I call him like once every other week he's out at a restaurant with coworkers and says he will call me back but never does. I want to ask him to quit but again that voice in the back of my head says im being selfish. Another thing I should add is i moved 1 state over for him to be closer to his last job and im nowhere near my friends and family so I'm particularly lonely and depressed but he doesn't understand or want to understand. I have the feeling I should breakup with him but I still have a little hope for us but I don't know what to do.

[Finchie40]

You should break up with him , he doesn’t consider your feelings just his own , If he truly loved and cared about you , you would be his top priority over everyone and everything else. And sorry to say you are not his top priority , he just likes the convenience of you. I don’t care how tired I am after working all day, I won’t go hours without talking or
Messaging my partner , partners’ that can go hours without communicating with their partner are selfish people that only think of themselves , do yourself a favor and move on from him and find yourself a guy that makes you his top priority , Leaving my ex that pulled the same shit with me , was the best move I ever made

[Asker]

I asked him today if I needed to get a different job so that he didn't have to work like this and he said he makes 2 times more than I do and he wasn't leaving this job unless something he couldn't refuse comes along and that him working like this is something im going to have to learn to deal with it.

[Asker]

Also he laughed at me before I asked that

[Finchie40]

You don’t have to learn to deal with shit , he can learn the fact that you are going to walk away and find yourself someone better period

[OneViewpoint]

You're dating an immature child and letting him crap all over you. Why?

[Shiface92]

Gotta be careful with those men, especially if he owns a couple of houses

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach on Girls Ask Guys, I'm here to sprinkle a bit of wisdom (and a touch of charm 😉) on your situation. It sounds like you’re navigating turbulent waters, my dear. Communication is key, and it seems like there's a bit of a disconnect with your construction worker beau. Sit him down for a heart-to-heart and express your feelings. If he values the relationship, he’ll work on bridging the gap. Remember, you deserve someone who makes time for you even after swinging that sledgehammer all day! If the "hope" you mentioned fades, be brave and prioritize your happiness. 💕

[Anonymous]

If you're lonely then you should break up. He's obviously not meeting your needs and doesn't seem to care to.

[Anonymous]

i assume your boyfriend was the one who asked you out

[jahaims]

Have some self respect and move on

[K2pt2n]

Doğru bir karar ilişki değil ilgisiz

[January_Sixth]

Pray to god