Should I get mad tht my boyfriend went to hooters with his construction workers after work. ( not his idea)?

[Anonymous]

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+1 y

He was 2 hours away from where he lives so all his coworkers went to the job site in one car so even if he said no to going he had to wait for them in the car so I guess but still

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+1 y

by the way I text him saying “I don’t want talk to you enjoy and I’m block you “ did I over react?

[Anonymous]

I personally would hate it if my man went to hooters (even if it was a social thing). I hate the idea of him sexually ogling at other women, and that's pretty much the point of hooters. I get that you're going to notice that other people are attractive, but there's a big difference between knowing someone is attractive and checking out girls the way guys go to hooters for.
However, I wouldn't break up with him over it. In fact, if we hadn't talked about how I felt before I wouldn't even get mad. I'd just tell him that it bothers me that he went to hooters with his friends because I know why guys go to hooters. He may say that it was just a social thing or that he wasn't thinking of the girls that way. I wouldn't necessarily think he's lying, but I'd still ask him not to go out of respect for me. In fact, when he says he can't go he can just use me as the (honest) excuse.
The only woman I want my man to be sexually thinking of in that way is me.

I know you're going to get a lot of opinions from a lot of different women about this. Some are going to say it's no big deal. However, if your bothered by it (and based on this question I think you are) then it is a big deal. I don't think it's too much to ask him not to go to hooters.

[solstice02]

I would bring it up that it did annoy me that he went. Personally, I hate being the girlfriend that permits her boyfriend from going places, but I would bring it up, saying that it bothered me and I would have preferred him not to go. I wouldn't break up with him because of it though. Next time that he is asked to go, he knows where you stand on it, will *hopefully* decline

[Anonymous]

Lol you seriously overreacted. Honestly if I was him I’d consider ending this relationship. To me this is a sign of things to come. As for going to hooters honestly there isn’t sh*t there to see. Most of these girls who work there have nothing to look at. Besides a lot of men go just to hang out w their friends. Understand you can’t keep a man from looking at other women once in a while.

[FunkyMonkee]

What's wrong with him going to a restaurant? It's not like he's cheating on you or getting pussy there! Yeah, you DID over-react!!

[Asker]

He has cheated on me before and we have been working things out
He knows we working on trust & communication. I think y’all not getting that I would of had no problem if he told me he was going to hooters. I can’t be mad at him to go to hooters if he can see ass walking down the street.

[FunkyMonkee]

I see! A history!
I doubt Hooters girls are allowed to do more than flirt, if they're even allowed to do that.
Otherwise, if there's trust issues, shouldn't you be giving him a chance? Especially if he didn't WANT to go.

[Asker]

What bothered me is that he told me he was done with work and that he was going to eat and never mentioned hooters. Then I saw his location and notice it and I text him “ let me find out you I’m hooters” then all
Of a sudden he said there wasn’t no signal and he send me a picture of his food. Why would he send me a pic of the food … pointless.. just made me feel like he was making me look stupid. If that makes any sence lol

[FunkyMonkee]

I'm no pro at this but, it's possible Hooters was a last minute decision by the guys or they just didn't bother telling him `til he got there. As for a pic of the food, if nothing else, I'd just say it was just proof that he was just getting something to eat and not doing other shit that you'd have to worry about.

[jahaims]

Depends on how you feel about it and if he knew how you felt about it.

[rebeliouse]

omg whats wrong with him going there? stop been a psycho why can't guys window shop women do!

[slatyb]

No, you shouldn't. You should grow up.

[Wise4myage]

Controlling much?