My boyfriend goes to hooters all the time should I be mad?

[Anastasia786]

This man literally goes to hooters often with his one friend who told me of the girls he likes there and he says I just love the wings and beer blah blah blah I get really pissed on the other side because as every girl would agree we aren't stupid they go there to gawk at girls like the thirsty asses they are what should I do and why do I get so pissed about it

[GoogleWasMyIdea]

Please let me try to explain something to you on how this post is extremely manipulative and controlling. The thing is I let my girlfriend go out with her friends all the time. Do I ask where she is going? Nope. I trust her. Your boyfriend just wants to have a good time. Be a cooler girlfriend. I swear just be chill and you will see that those are the best relationships where you can be like "hey babe, I'm going out with the boys." "Okay baby. I love you. Have fun." Bam! Guess what? We have a healthy relationship because she trusts me and I will trust her in the same exact way. That's what real relationships are about. In this post, I see trust issues and that creates toxic relationships.

[Anastasia786]

Thank you so much for your response it really means a lot ❤

[Anastasia786]

I just don't like him staring at other girls like am I not good enough?

[GoogleWasMyIdea]

Who is his girlfriend? Those girls at hooters or you? Those vibes you are sending off are insecurity and trust issues that you can always work on. In my first relationship I ever had, I was so worried about getting cheated on that o got cheated on. I would ask her "hey, where are you?" While out with her friends. I learned from my mistakes. You have to trust in your partner completely and also be secure within yourself. He is with you and not them.

[Anastasia786]

Thank you I needed to hear that 🙏

[GoogleWasMyIdea]

You're welcome. I also base it on allowing her the chance to cheat on me because I honestly don't care about getting cheated on. It's happened to me before and I easily got over it. I would rather her do it as soon as possible rather than restrict her freedom and give her less chances to cheat on me. If she cheats on me then I say thank you for doing this so soon so I can find someone who really loves me.

[Anastasia786]

You're a very kind person and I'm sorry that happened to you and you deserve so much better and you will find it for sure 😊😊

[Quiet_Wanderer]

To be blunt, you sound kind of insecure. Its ok to voive that, and hooters does objectify womesn which I don't agree with.

You might consider asking if you can go with him, after all if he's just interested in the food then you going won't be a big deal.

[Quackthulu]

So he likes tits and shitty food. Just be happy he has low standards.

[Anastasia786]

I'm dying 🤣

[Luckycharms12]

😂😂😂

[1truekhaleesi]

Hooters food tastes disgusting. He's not there for the food my dear.

[MrStitch]

I mean the food is not very good, so no doubt he's their just for "the views" of the girls basically. If I was a girl I would not be happy at my partner for that.

[WesBrewer]

You have the right to be mad at him for going to a toned-down strip club.

[Adam1978]

No you either have to accept it or find a boyfriend with another habit. You have only right to complain if he doesn't give you the time when you need it.

[hellacray]

Yeah... I don't think he's going there for just the food.

I don't know is his one friend like socially awkward with very few friends? Maybe he's just going to keep him company?

If not then that's pretty weird.

[Wise4myage]

Yeah, I see no reason why he can't take you with him. He loves more than the wings and beer, lol.

[Twalli]

I actually heard Hooters has pretty good wings. I heard this from a girl.

[Iknowbestgirls]

Of course he goes there to look at girls. Your probably mad because your insecure. If you keep your man satisfied and dress how he likes he probably wouldn't go there.

[chriscdi]

well there's girls everywhere, we can look at them anywhere, i believe he goes for the food, they do got some good food at hooters and upper deck