Listen to me, its completely fine for a guy to go to Hooters or a strip joint ora club or wherever there are girls that'll be half naked. Here's the deal: You have to ask yourself "Why am I gittin all p*ssed off over this sh*t?"
I mean really...so what some big boobed girl flaunts her chest to make a few extra duckets. Its her job...they're only doin it for the extra cash in there pockets. Now I'm sure there are some good lookin guys that make the Hooter girls do a double take themselves but seriously ...if you're worred that a Hooters girl is gonna steal your man, you never had him in the 1st place.
Now that sounds harsh but lemme break it down: I assume he loves you or is in good standing with you. So why would he play himself for a Hooters girl? And if he does...is this the guy you really want? The bottom line may be that you are feeling insecure about yourself or maybe even your body and him going to eat at a place with half naked girls with titties hangin out doesn't help that. But too be honest, he probably looks at at least 10-20 different girls a day that you don't even know about.
Let him do these things. Let him go to Hooters, the strip joint, a club on a Guys Nite Out. Let him do it w/out feeling guilt. Because if you truly trust him...aint sh*t gonna happen. And at the end of the day he's gonna be GLAD to come home to you.
PS: In return for you letting him go, you get to go to Chippendales and Girls Nite Out too
YEa of course its ok. He still has his own life. Its a guys thing and if you take that away from him he will probably end up resenting you. As long as he's not trying to pick up girls or anything like that then its fine. You have to learn to trust him and let him do his thing.
I don't think your crazy. I wouldn't be okay with it, simply because hooters seems trashy to me. I think hooters just seems gross in general, for men and women, and from what I hear the food isn't good either. Personally, I'd think it was kind of gross if even a single guy went there, but would semi-understand and not care, but for a guy in a relationship I think it's inappropriate. There are no half-dress men restaurants but there are half-dressed women restaurants, and men expect women to accept it and say they are nagging if they don't... Seems like bullsh*t to me. I personally wouldn't go to a restaurant like that even if there was one, because I don't like how society uses sex to sell things that don't even relate to it at all. I understand lingerie and underwear being sexualized, but not food and etc.. Now, I agree that demanding a guy not go is bossy, but if she is asking nicely then is hooters really more important than your relationship to say "sorry I have to go with my buddies"? If it is, you should probably re-examine your priorities and stick to enjoying your young single life till you are ready for a full commitment. But hey, that's just my opinion, everyone's differs.
The whole point is not about insecurities. My objection is if you are in a serous relationship, it is just not appropriate to go see women who you tip for flirting with you or dancing for you. It's just disrespectful. Plus, I'm very secure person and have an awesome sex life.
Now if you love your wife and you are a loyal faithful person, and not many get to experience such a blessing, you would not want to make her feel disrespected by lusting and drooling over another woman and spending money you both work hard for on another woman.
In reality these feelings are normal especially if you love someone. It is how you react is what counts. All these guys talk so much crap b/c they don't truly love someone. If they were truly in love they wouldn't want there wife drooling over another man's package who's is bigger than his. Truth!
So at this point the answer is if he goes you get to go. Your supposed to treat and love your significant other as you want to be treated. If he can't handle that fairness, no need to continue the relationship.
It's not about trust or any of that bull. This is how it is, that is a trashy place and if your boyfriend has any respect for you and if he has any morals he won't want to go there. And for you idiots sayings it's OK, "they're only doing their job" what exactly is their job? To wear slutty clothes so guys can go be disgusting pervs and look at them and pretend they like the food. It's so disrespectful that place makes me sick. This country is going downhill big time, they should be ashamed
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Have you been to Hooters? I feel like it's one of those places people hype up, lol. I have been there and trust me it's not anything special. I mean, people are always talking about how good their wings are. I think it's pretty innocent. It's like ryanontario said, it's not like it's a strip club. If that's the worst that he's doing, you've got it made! Lol.
i've been to a few hooters before and I'd say its no big deal he went there as nothing much goes on there anyways and the girls are wearing clothes , its far from a strip club . the most I've seen go on there was one waitress once did a hola hoop contest where they raced for how long they coulod use the hola hoop for . I've never seen anything sexual go on there . so I don't really see why you were concerned .
I honestly wouldn't get mad at a hooters..but I realy know how you feel. a few months ago me and my boyfriend were talking about strip clubs and how I said if he ever went to one I would break up with him. I told him it would hurt me badly if he ever went to one. So without me knowing he went to one that night. He told me a month later. He said he didn't do anything and that he felt bad and sat in the back. I still think he is lieing about that. But I know how you feel really. I feel like if a man has to go to a place where there is beautiful naked woman rubbing their vaginas on their face then he obviously isn't pleased with what he has, It made me feel like I wasn't good enough. I don't know I hope I get over it someday because I really love him.
idk personally ime agains the hooters concept
i mean I would be offended if my wife went to a place were half a guys...was showing
to me its wrong to go there if your in a realtiship
First of all, I work at Hooters and I believe it's completely okay. We are wearing v-neck shirts, shorts, NYLONS and socks with gym shoes. We are not around half and trust me we work to make money-not steal boyfriends or hit on guys. Second of all, it's a FAMILY restaurant. We have crayons and kids menus for crying out loud. Yes, with a name like "Hooter's" I could understand your fury. But if you avoid all the hype and look into it, it's just like any normal restaurant. Maybe you should go there some time.
I think it is. Its not like he went to a strip club or seen any women totally naked. I know how Hooters girls dress and act, but that's how they make their tips. I think guys can go there and just have some drinks and some food and just hang out like guys do. I would not be worried about it unless it was like all the time and he started acting different towards me.
Who cares! Are you gunna get p*ssed off at him every time he wants to go swimming too? Hooters is about as innocent as it gets.
If it bothers you TALK IT OUT
If you don't cone to agreement this shit will not change post-marriage and kids
I went to a Hooters once years ago.
It's no big deal.
It's just a casual restaurant.
I haven't returned.
I do see a problem, it's not like they are strippers...
I really don't think it's a big deal. It's not even like he's going to a strip club.
if its with the boys and it wasn't his idea its okay i guess. on his own nooo
Of course. It's not a strip joint, though admittedly no one in their right mind would go there for the food and flat beer. I took a woman I was traveling with for work there for dinner.
What’s hooters about? Just waitresses with their tits out? I don’t care about that
If it is boobs and Bimbos he Wants with the Guys or by myself, stay single. I don't Approve even of a Strip club. Sorry.
you are crazy jealous. I suppose you want to take the lingerie ads out of his paper before he reads it.
I see no problem with him going. maybe lapdance clubs are a worry
There's literally kids in there eating.
Are you joking?
Hooters is mild.
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