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Can emotional neglect in childhood affect adult attachment and neediness?

Due to financial reasons I never got to enjoy, connect, or love of my parents. They were forced of a joint family, and I was 3 years old, barely surviving. They did a great job though, did the education, care and...
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Should I confess my crush to an older senior before he graduates?

I have this crush on a guy at my school (that’s how it always goes, right?). I’ve been thinking about telling him that I like him, and in a casual, non stressful way. It’s in terms that I’m okay if he rejects me or...
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Why do little things hurt so much?

Ok, so, like, this morning I was putting wood in the wood stove 'cuz it's still friggen cold in the mornings but not as cold as it has been all friggen winter like I bitched about so I won't bitch about it quite as much...
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Is modern academia hopelessly toxic and unfair for PhD students?

I have felt that academia is not meant for students anymore. It has become very toxic. I have seen my friends in PhD in STEM suffer so much and ultimately quit or get fired and this has become so common. And most...
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How do I cope with always feeling like the runt of my family litter?

I’ve been feeling really upset and overwhelmed with my family lately. There’s a long-standing pattern where I often feel left out, dismissed, or treated differently compared to my sisters. Things have been building...
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How can I cope with jealousy toward my close friend?

I'm very insecure and seeing her being better than me in almost everything is torturing me. I don't treat her badly because I know my insecurity is not her fault. It's so frustrating and being around her makes me even...
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Is it hard to be humble sometimes?

I honestly wish I was better at being humble. I always thought you just are or aren't and that I'm not so that's why it's hard for me but maybe everyone has to figure this out. Was sitting by a marina in Nyack NY....
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Is it fair to end things if he’s flaky and won’t commit to real plans?

So we’ve got 4th date on Monday or Wednesday, he asked me out but he still hasn’t confirmed it exactly when. And today he seems to be at home and is texting me from there, even though he said he wasn’t sure if he would be...
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Should we remove marriage as a social expectation, especially for women?

Its a pressure for women, to get married. And it's even worse for women after marriage, they have to do more work, focus on their career and take care of the house or the child. It took me a lot of time to understand...
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Ever heard the tale of Henry Ziegland?

The story of Henry Ziegland (<---Link to story of Henry) is a classic tale of broken romance, twisted fates and patient, cold karma (ain't she a bitch? 😉) but is it true? And why does it still captivate imaginations...
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Does it ever feel like just being a man is never enough for women?

if you are a woman you are pretty much automatically wanted and special. That is enough for men. As men you gotta be tall, make a lot of money, be muscly and the list is endless Being a man alone does not seem good enough...
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if you are a woman you are pretty much automatically wanted and special. That is enough for men. As men you gotta be tall, make a lot of money, be muscly and the list is endless Being Show More
Being a man alone isn’t enough
Being a man alone is enough
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Which sounds more truly noble as a name: Gökçen or Ahuzar?

Due to some problems, I decided to change my name. I'm very undecided about the name. I have brown hair and green eyes. The reason I say this is that the meanings of some names are related to appearance. Let's go over...
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Due to some problems, I decided to change my name. I'm very undecided about the name. I have brown hair and green eyes. The reason I say this is that the meanings of some names are Show More
Gökçen
Ahuzar
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Do you work two jobs, and does it actually help you save money each month?

I have a good job but the economy is so tough that its still not enough cause how high my bills are getting so I am trying to get a 2nd job.
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I have a good job but the economy is so tough that its still not enough cause how high my bills are getting so I am trying to get a 2nd job. Show More
yes I work 2 jobs
No I don't work two jobs
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Am I the male equivalent of a single mom?

Not in that I’m a single dad, I’m not, I don’t have any kids, but more often than not, if I’m getting any attention from a woman, she has kids. So what is causing this? Am I just not good enough for attractive single...
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Prime Mayweather vs prime Crawford: who actually wins this dream fight?

Mayweather stats. Speed: five stars Technical Boxing: 4.5 stars Power: 4 stars Stance: 4.5 stars (Slightly vulnerable when moving to his own right for some reason) Stamina: 5 stars Crawford stats: Speed: 4.5 stars...
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Is it time to give up on love when it feels like my only purpose in life?

Some wished I was born in the same religion as them, Some said I was tall and handsome. Some just didn't feel any attraction. Being stood up, saying that I thought you will be better looking in person. Is it time...
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Are hardships only glorified when they’re balanced by benefits?

Whenever I keep hearing stories of people complaining about sensitive people (snowflakes) and how they had it harder in their times but thanks to that they're decent people with professional degrees and businesses, I...
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What is one surprisingly powerful piece of advice that truly worked for you?

Mike Murdoch said, what you respect, you will attract, what you don’t respect, will move away from you. A black doctor said on social media you only need one thing to succeed at your job, which is you have to love it...
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Is there like, a type of guy that single mom’s tend to go for?

I’ve always struggled with attracting girls, but I’ve had some recent experiences (one where I know this girl is actually interested) but where single women that have children come off way more interested than women that...
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After recent events, will you ever vote Republican again?

I ask because I'm just wondering if you've felt sufficiently betrayed, lied to, and generally bullshitted by these people enough to finally realize that voting for them was a bad idea. Are you still a believer, in that...
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