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Perhaps a month ago, I asked users how they envisioned their life being different 5 years from now and whether they had a plan for bringing about the changes that they wanted. A few responders were apathetic or pessimistic but most envisioned some positive changes. However, very few expressed any plan for how they would make those changes happen.

I believe that self-confidence is one of the most important qualities a guy can have for attracting a partner for a long term relationship. I also think that having a plan and following a plan is a large component of self-confidence. Having a plan does not necessarily mean going to college, getting a business job, wearing a suit every day. It can mean going to a vocational school or serving an apprenticeship and becoming a journeyman in a trade. (A journeyman electrician can earn $75,000 per year; the average pay for a locomotive engineer is $110,000 per year.)

So now I am asking if a guy having a plan for how he wants to improve his life, and then actually following that plan, makes a guy more attractive to you as a potential partner for a long term relationship.