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I'm very conflicted undergoing social anxiety complex trauma and depression and anorexia nervosa. Im very down. The last time I was so down was with 16 when I landed in the ER. It is really bad right now. I tried to explain my boyfriend I don't have any energy for our relationship but he had a good childhood he never experienced depression. He will never understand my behaviour and my pain.

he just reciting John legends: all of me. But this isn't it. He told me I should give him a chance and not break things and I opened up about everything I'm going through that's why I wanted to end things bc I'm afraid I make him down too. But when my life sort out I want to relive our relationship again.

Today he said: "I'm afraid you will break up you was distance"

Why can't he understand that this the fcking reason of course I love him and tell him but also I just need time for my own. I can't be a lover right now. Love us not a medicine. But everyone tells me: it is your sickness that speaks. But even though. I hurt him with the way I am because I won't be pretending anything. I don't know what to do. He told me if I break up now or of I insisted in a breaking pause it would not last. But what makes him so sure about thst? I just wonders if that is something because he deep himself thinks this relationship would not last anyway or if this a stated fact?

Blocking and breaking up is an unforgivable sin if a girl or boy does it after they make them fall in love with them or date them or after they have been in relationship with them. Agree? I believe that a person shouldn't start a love if they are willing to leave the other person at some point in future when they get bored or due to any other reason. If they do it after they made the other person fall in love with them, it's never forgivable. Because a person if they started love with the other person they should be willing to stay even after they get bored or if they are getting attracted to other girls or guys. Getting attracted to other girls or guys is never a valid reason for breaking another person's heart who trusted this person a lot. Why to give them trust of love when they are willing to break it at some point of life? Also a person shouldn't fall in love with an inconsistent girl or guy at the beginning itself so that they can avoid becoming victims of these playboys and playgirls actions. Do you agree with what all I mentioned?