Blocking or breaking up with some is similar to murdering someone because killing someone's feelings alive is an unforgivable sin. Agree?

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Blocking and breaking up is an unforgivable sin if a girl or boy does it after they make them fall in love with them or date them or after they have been in relationship with them. Agree? I believe that a person shouldn't start a love if they are willing to leave the other person at some point in future when they get bored or due to any other reason. If they do it after they made the other person fall in love with them, it's never forgivable. Because a person if they started love with the other person they should be willing to stay even after they get bored or if they are getting attracted to other girls or guys. Getting attracted to other girls or guys is never a valid reason for breaking another person's heart who trusted this person a lot. Why to give them trust of love when they are willing to break it at some point of life? Also a person shouldn't fall in love with an inconsistent girl or guy at the beginning itself so that they can avoid becoming victims of these playboys and playgirls actions. Do you agree with what all I mentioned?

Francesca1994_ · Accepted Answer

I think it’s worst cause with death you don’t feel it anymore.

jaskin777 · Accepted Answer

I truly agree with you

Account · Answer

I disagree, but please hear me out because what you are going through is a learning experience.
You can pick up your shattered pieces, find strength in yourself and find the will to move on. People change their minds. It is incredibly common. You will see this often as years go by. It is not something you are able to control.
You are probably going through something difficult, but the answer is within yourself.
You need to find ways to love yourself more.
It might seem extremely irrelevant as an advice but if you manage to achieve that, then nothing about other people's behaviors will phase you anymore and you will be able to have full control over your feelings.
I hope it gets better though.

AviatorTom · Answer

HECK NO!!! No, when you kill someone they cannot take another breath. When you block someone, they can still communicate with others.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

You’re being a bit too dramatic. It will pass.

MsBell2018 · Answer

Dating is supposed to be a prelude to marriage. It's seeing if you're compatible enough to be able to stay with them the rest of your life. Unfortunately, these days, people date to pass time or until someone they think is "better" comes along. People grow up, grow older & mature & their views, opinions & tastes change. That's just life. The person you are & your likes in your teens is going to be different than who you'll be & your likes in your 20's, 30's, 40's, etc. Love is no different. Sometimes, 2 people that come together to date don't share the same level of emotions/love. Like he's looking for a casual lover & she's looking for a husband or she's looking for a Sugar Daddy & he wants a wife & to have children. There's a saying that says 'It's better to love & lost than to have never loved at all." I believe everyone should experience heartbreak at some time. Reason, to appreciate love, know what you like & don't like, what you did right & what you need to do better next relationship.
I'm sorry if you're wounded behind loving someone. If that's the situation, I hope you're able to learn from it, change because of it & move forward after it

Anonymous · Answer

Opinions on the acceptability of ending a relationship vary. Some believe that sudden actions like blocking or breaking up are unforgivable, especially if trust was established. Others argue that individuals have the right to end a relationship if it no longer aligns with their feelings. Setting clear boundaries and prioritizing open communication can contribute to healthier relationships. Ultimately, what is considered forgivable varies, and individuals should prioritize emotional well-being in relationships.

Flatmanlewis · Answer

The comparison is not even the same. It may feel that way but it’s simply an exaggerated expression taken to its extreme. Broken hearts suck so breakups hurt. Blocking someone (I assume on social media of some kind) is so ridiculously insignificant to me I cannot even comprehend it being on the same level as a break up.

Murder - the complete ending of a humans life, perhaps ending their family line, and the crushing pain of those parents, siblings, friends, and other family who love them, and a soul crushing fear as life slips out of the victim - could not in a million years be equated to a break up.

TenderFantasy · Answer

I picked B. People will do whatever the fuck they want so long as they can get away with it and it's not illegal. Trust me, I've been there. I've seen how conniving and vindictive/evil some people can be... however, comparing dating to murdering someone? I don't know if I'd go that far. Some people are just too stupid to realize a good or beautiful thing unfortunately..

Also, lots of people break up for various reasons. Unfortunately, the other party doesn't really have a say, especially if the other person has selfishly made up their mind. That's the thing with other people, you cannot control them or their actions, thoughts, feelings, etc. Only yours.

Be careful out there and good luck. It's a mine field. Not just with dating and relationships but plenty of other things as well like money, health, peace of mind, friends, family, etc.

exitseven · Answer

Unfortunately this is what is in the cards for most of us. Relationships are awkward and messy and trying to find somebody who you can be in a relationship with is hard considering how many people are on the planet and how complex people are. It is w wonder that every relationship does not end in disaster.

BadApple69 · Answer

I don’t like either of your options. Let’s start off with YOU DONT COME BACK FROM BEING MURDERED.
Having your heart broke is hard but we all go through it. We all (who are reading this now) are still alive. Life is pain, we lose people to death or actual murder, we suffer loses of all kinds. We rise above it.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

I would say it's wrong if someone fakes feelings to make another person fall for them. It has nothing to do with breaking up or blocking. The very idea behind it is wrong.

collie22 · Answer

Getting hurt feels pretty bad. Those evil doers should pay a fine or pick up trash on the side of the road.

supercutebutt · Answer

If someone doesn't like you anymore, they are supposed to pretend that they do, until the end of time, just so you won't be a little sad? LOL! You wouldn't do that so why should everyone else? Don't count on others to make you happy.

SphynxUK · Answer

No one makes someone get in a relationship nor make them love them. And sometimes relationships need to end, and it’s commendable to do it for the right reasons. In fact, it’s the grown up thing to do. It’s not a sin.

9in_Serpent · Answer

While i can understand your reasoning behind this and had something similar happen to me or worse, i will have to disagree because it was not their fault or our fault but rather the society and the movies they make that made us adopt unrealistic expectations of other people with this idea called “love” or “soul mate” and things like that

aceleon · Answer

yes and no. relationships are stupid and risky from the beginning, your idea is good but far too idealistic for this rotten world.

LazerBean · Answer

Ig next time you start dating someone you better tell them that you would just as soon them kill you as break up with you.

DaisyM23 · Answer

I agree that it's an asshole move to break someone's heart if you get with them just to break up or play with them but I don't think it's similar to murder...

slatyb · Answer

Ridiculous. Relationships end. Yes, some people will take advantage of others desperation, and it's despicable. But we survive being dumped.

molonski2 · Answer

Ummm NO.. One is called death , the other will not matter in under 2 years , its a ludicrous idea to be honest , Death is death = FINISH.

es20490446e · Answer

FALSE. Most of the time you don't know if you are really compatible, and you want to give it a chance. Rather than just not giving the other person an opportunity.

Nikki1989 · Answer

How are you comparing breaking up with someone with the ghastly act of murder?

Iron_Man · Answer

It’s really horrible pain especially if you talk to somebody a lot and have been with them but it’s not the worst pain in the world of course not but it’s really bad pain. It took me three years to get over my former girlfriend

Yoursweetgirl · Answer

I agree, you kinda kill the soul of other person when you break their heart.
However if you fell out of love because other person didn't appear who they seemed to be, or they had some dealbreaker behaviours, I think they deserve their heart broken

Twalli · Answer

Hardly anyone gets into a relationship with the intention to end it. I didn't, but I wasn't expecting it to be my last one. It is, but I went in with enough common sense to realize that most relationships don't work.

Unit1 · Answer

These 2 don't compare at all. These are 2 entirely different things.

sheikalana · Answer

The pain of a break up can be very similar to grief.

msc545 · Answer

I realize you have hurt feelings but this is way over the top. Hurt feelings last a month or two. Dead is forever.

besthills · Answer

There both breaks each other heart, the sin for both lovers

pickles77 · Answer

Chill it’s not the same

rosie95 · Answer

Really?

Crankor · Answer

Umm no

LiamJHayden · Answer

Absurd.

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