My girlfriend broke up with me and the reason was i was cheating on her and after breaking up also we were talking and i was trying to get her back but she was avoiding me and after 3 days she started talking in a normal way but she always says now we are ex and we are still talking and all stuff and tries to make me angry but i played neutral in that situation and but after one week we were talking in night and our talk got serious so i told her that i am in a situation that i have to balance my work life and even i am not talking to my parents and i am getting scolded every day in my job and even i am in depression and my legs and hands are shaking u was the only one i was talking to everyday and now u also not talking to me and i want you back please give me a chance to prove my self once and i promise i will not do it again i will not even talk to girls and please give me one last chance either you talk to me as a girlfriend or please don’t I can’t balance these all things all at once when ever u feel like talking give me a call think about it and then she said u are only looking from ur perspective not from mine and i have i hatred for you now and we can’t get back to that relationship anymore it will be good not to talk anymore will she get back or not?
3 mo
Can we get back again and if yes how much tile it will take if no why and how same for yes?
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You cheated on her, dumb ass. Why should she take you back? So you can cheat on her again? You didn't care enough about her to not cheat on her. You fucked up, now deal with it.
How can i get her back?
You cheated on her. Go find a girl who you will not cheat on because obviously she's not the one. A woman is not just going to forget you cheated on her. Having sex with another woman is not forgivable.
I didn’t had sex dude i just talked to that girl and she got feelings and i hid this all because if my girlfriend knows this she will be sad and i cut off that girl as soon as i knew she got feelings for me
Probably not lol
I dont see how u cheating on her then trying to push her into a corner would get her back
Me and my girlfriend was talking for 2 months then we started to meet then after 2 months we got committed and only for one month as a couple we met then i have to go for a training our bond was not great because we were not open to each other then i met a girl in my training period then we also started talking but anyhow i knew my limits and she started catching feelings for me but i back offed then and sometimes we use to talk we use to hangout that another girl but i didn’t told anything about this to my girlfriend but recently she asked me for my insta account and then she checked and she saw we were talking and she got pissed then i have to tell her but still i didn’t tell her everything because if she will know she will not feel good but tbh i didn’t saw that another girl more then a friend but now my girlfriend is saying let make this relationship open or we should breakup and i am asking apology every day to her and asking her to give me just one chance i am changed and she is saying u have ur chance but anyhow i will just stop talking to you slowly so that that will not make me sad but should i keep trying or I should not but i love my girlfriend very much and in fact i am really changed
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U can't be helped your girlfriend don't trust u she won't want to be with you
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