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This was the initial twitter quote that started it off

You can’t call yourself an alpha male and have an Asian wife

— *⋆ 🎀 евелина 🎀 ⋆* (@soviethoneytrap) December 17, 2022

For those who can't see. The user said this "You can’t call yourself an alpha male and have an Asian wife". And this is coming from a white female.

Some of the highlighted replies

"All Asian women are mid and generally the white men who go after them are mediocre themselves."

"Delusional. Asians are bigger sl*ts and goldoggers than white women they literally fuck everything that's white and has money."

"AFAIK people can date whoever they want. Don’t act like your women don’t throw themselves at White men like it’s the end of the world though. Being together with an Asian as a White male is incredibly easy"

"White guys bragging about how they’re super mediocre & no one even looks at their direction in their countries but in Asia the women incessantly approach them because they’re white etc.. it’s a documented phenomenon"

"Another point: the low-quality of some (many?) of our women, has driven white men to date Latinas and Asian girls, who will, most of the time, treat them better than the white girls who they’ve dated prior. Not saying it’s good, not saying it’s bad; it’s just how it is."

"True story! White men with Asian women = last resort because you weren’t man enough to find a woman on your own level! It is fine if you want to resort to that measure, I don’t mind, but you will always be a soy boy beta male!"

Same sentiment can be seen on white dominated websites such as bodybuilding. com/misc where many users have said in the past that other white guys usually look down upon white males who date Asians.

I hate to say it but as man I usually have my mind made up within 30 seconds of meeting a woman of how physically attracted I am to her.

Emotional attraction does still weigh heavily into it though. She can be hot af but if I can’t stand her personality and/or she’s has no genuine interest in me I can move on. I can also move on a lot faster nowadays vs. when I was younger.

But the issue is often come across women I find that are 5’s or 6’s. They aren’t repugnant or anything but I don’t feel any butterfly’s in my stomach either. More often than not they really like me because while I am nice to them I also don’t bend over backwards for them either. I’m just as happy to be there or not be there. Either way is fine. So it’s easy to be myself.

But as a man I find that the ugly truth is I have never found myself growing in attraction for average looking women despite some of them having excellent personalities. I really have tried to “check myself” on this. Tell myself to look deeper. Tell myself to “grow up”. Feel guilty af about it.

But if tried to force myself to date and commit to average looking yet great personality girls in the past. It always ends in disaster. I quickly lose interest in sex and find myself having less patience about their problems. And I know that’s not fair at all.

Is it possible for a man to slowly fall in love with a woman he isn’t attracted to?

I am asking this because I have an opportunity to get married to an average looking girl who is outstanding in all other ways. She’s a very hard worker, respectful, excellent personality, moderate conservative, has no vices, etc. She’s also younger (27) yet mature and independent.

Yet she has a rather unattractive face and I feel Iike complete shit saying that. She’s was born with that those facial features and has zero control over them. I keep kicking myself not to judge that but it’s hard.

I very rarely get matches. After 3 weeks on hinge I got 0 matches. After 3 weeks on Hily I got 12 matches but only one replied but is always too "busy" to talk to me and she lives in a foreign country. On Bumble I got about 5 matches in a month and only 2 messaged me, both only wanted friendship. On Badoo I got 10 matches, only 4replied, 2 were from a foreign country and one was only there to sell nudes and the other only replied once then ghosted. On average I get maybe 1-3 matches a week on any dating app but 0 replies. This pattern persists regardless if it's a casual app like Tinder or a more serious app like POF or OKCupid. I always introduce myself by saying something relevant to their profile. (ie: Woah you're in Korea in that pic? Awesome I lived there for a year myself! What year did you visit?) Alas my messages are always left on read or unread. On the rare occasions that I do receive a reply it's the first and the last or the girl turns out to be a content seller. On even rarer occasions she reveals to me that she's only looking for friends and that I seemed nice. Then she follows up by telling me how great I am and how I'll easily find someone great. Spoiler alert... I never do. I can count on one hand how many actual dates I've gotten and only one ever became a relationship. This pattern is the same when I meet people in person as well.

My profile typically looks as follows:

About me:

I'm a history buff, an artist, and a gamer and I love cooking and creating YouTube videos.

I'm very open-minded, introverted, nerdy, intellectual, honest, kind, and polite and I am a great conversationalist. I love long and meaningful discussions!

Attributes:

Sign: Taurus

Religion: Agnostic

Age: 31

Ethnicity: Black

Height: 6'2"

Children: None

Smoke: No

Drink: Socially

Looking for: Dating/Serious relationship