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Search Results: physical turn offs
Toxic ex gave me trauma and is now dating a new girl. Is it bad that I'm angry and think its unfair that he's happily taken while I'm still suffering?
I broke up with my toxic and abusive boyfriend after dating him for almost 5 years. He was the classic green flag who turned out to be a major red flag. The duration and aftermath of the relationship influenced my mental...
Anonymous
(25-29) The issue is NOT boys vs girls. Real solutions must address the real problem: so let's address it.
I've read up a good bit on this site having never been a member myself - I have heard the countless woes of girls talking about the horrible guys they have had to deal with, and I have heard the countless stories of guys...
SimonClass
Xper 2 Age: 28 Why are fat women nicer than skinny women?
I've noticed that a lot of skinny women seem to be self absorbed, sometimes slutty and an attention whore. Often they have personalities that I find completely repulsive. I actually find it a turn off if an attractive...
TommyWiseau69
Xper 5 Age: 35 Did this really cost me or is there still a chance?
My relationship before last really brought out the worst in me. Won't get into specific details but initially she was the abuser until one day I got tired of it all and began retaliating. Things would often get physical...
eyeameye
Xper 2 Age: 35 Breathwork and Breathing Practices for Stress Management
Breathing exercises can be a useful tool for managing stress, improving relaxation, and supporting overall health and well-being. There are many different types of breathing exercises that can be helpful in different...
bigbang101
Xper 7 Age: 32 The Mentality Behind Ghosting, How to Recover From Getting Ghosted, and Why You Should Not Ghost!
Foreword: This applies to both friendships and dating. Ghosting, in this instance, refers to the sudden cessation of contact via any means, such as text or in-person contact, for any reason. Disclaimer: All opinions and...
xJeremyx
Xper 6 Age: 25 MCheetah December 2022 Journal Entry to Vent
This is just a journal entry for me and me alone. I don't expect anyone else to possibly understand it or get it, but writing helps me vent. I'm going to type until I feel better or reach the character limit....
MCheetah
Editor Age: 39 Does he like me?
I recently met a guy at work, we don’t work in direct departments together but I do see him often because our departments are “connected” in a way. We just recently started chatting a lot at work and I’ve sort of caught...
Anonymous
(25-29) Ladies, what kind of men turn you off (certain traits) or gives you a eerie feeling he might not be a good man to be with? Do I suck as a man 😕?
Be honest. Ex: My pros . : Very self confident. : I'm flexible, open and understanding. : Very low ego (Within a relationship) : Humble. : Witty. : Very religious. : Deeply love God and Jesus Christ. : Deeply love the...
Hispanic-Cool-Guy
Master Age: 40 Why would a guy choose a girl who's a horrible person over other girls who are nicer?
Interestingly, my guy friend (and no I've never "liked" him) got into a relationship with this girl 2 years ago. She is quite literally the nastiest person I've ever met. She bullies other girls until they cry, she plots...
Anonymous
(25-29) Girls, is a seemingly confident guy who is insecure about his appearance attractive?
Let's say there is a guy who acts confident in most ways. He carries himself confidently, interacts confidently, and so on. He's had to work at it because of past low-self esteem and mental issues. However, he still has...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) What hobbies do men like for a woman to have? Are my hobbies making me completely "nondateable"?
I must admit right away that I'm not very interesting or fun to most people. I'm not a huge fan of travelling, exercising or just straight up being a social butterfly. Do you believe we've got to have some interesting...
Jemini_Crocket
Guru Age: 26 Girls, Is it a turn-off if a guy asks about the other guys you may be dating/seeing?
Lets say you were on a nice date and you guys go back to your place to relax and talk more about each other. Is it a turn-off for a guy to ask you about the other guys you are seeing? Or if your having physical relations...
Rkbleezy
Xper 4 Age: 28 
Is this weird for a relationship?
i am dating a girl 14 i am 17 i turn 18 in 9 months but i am curious if i am weird for our age difference she physically doesn’t look like a normal freshman she is 5’7 i’m 6’0 and she has a nice physical appearance looks...
Anonymous
(18-24) Can you be so mentally turned off by somebody that it affects the physical?
In the beginning, I was physically attracted to this person, but then starting to get to know the person started turning off, still physically, attractive sort of just not trying to do anything
Justneedtokno
Guru Age: 31 To all the men out there, wondering what women really want.
I've been asked to write something like this a few times by several different people so here goes. What I want in a man Everyone is different in what they are looking for. I can only say what I personally look for and...
Would you date or hookup with someone who was the opposite of your usual physical 'type' you're into?
Would you date a girl (or guy) who had a GREAT personality and was super attracted to you, but the opposite of the type of body you go for, in that gender? Not "a complete turn off," but say, you like tall girls and she...
MCheetah
Editor Age: 39 
Isn't it shocking my boyfriend wasn't turned off that I once reacted badly with a ex boyfriend?
I was 18 years old at the time (now I'm 26) when I caught my then HS boyfriend with my former childhood friend. Both were asleep with just their jeans (him without a shirt and her with just bra on top; half naked), her...
Anonymous
(25-29) How can I just shut my brain down when it comes to loneliness, dating and sex and focus on resolving a financial problem I have?
I’m in situation where I really need to focus on work and getting my act together and make more money. I had a financial calamity happen about 9 months ago and I have to focus on work to pull myself out the hole. I am in...
Anonymous
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Dawnlind92
Xper 5 Age: 34 