People are willing to forgive and forget a lot of things but domestic violence is unfortunately not one of them.
It is part of your character, of whom you are. It is an intrinsic part of yourself and getting rid of this sleeping violence is something that cannot be achieved alone or then, with great difficulty.
The only way I would see that you can try to redeem yourself is to contact her (if she does not shut you out) and tell her how you feel and that you are willing to do something to better yourself.
You can suggest that you will seek counseling and that you wish her to accompany you. That would be the best proof that you are willing to help yourself. By being honest about your issue and by including her in your therapy, you may have a chance but otherwise, I don't think you will be able to convince her. Good luck.
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First thing. Now that she see you as a potential threat. Do not come on to strong. Back off a bit.
I would say to show her more of your vulnerable emotion or side to you. Allow her to have more of the control at this point just be open and talk to her about how you’re feeling, so in my opinion I think there is a chance if you show her that you are not a threat to her but there is a very thin line Between being persistent and overbearing
The last thing you want is for her to feel disrespected, or that you were being aggressive in your approach. However, try not to get your hopes up too much because in my experience, when a woman makes up her mind about some thing is very difficult to change her mind. I wish you good luck.
You follow her directions exactly. You communicate once about two weeks after you are fully out and have not spoken. Get your stuff out and get moved, settled, chilled, and in a position to be considered for friendship. Right now, you are trying to get into the FriendZone...
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You can try the best you can try to go to counseling with her. Try to work it out.
Nah, it sounds like you blew it.
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