I was 18 years old at the time (now I'm 26) when I caught my then HS boyfriend with my former childhood friend. Both were asleep with just their jeans (him without a shirt and her with just bra on top; half naked), her laying down on his lap on the couch and the TV was on.
I'm not proud of my reaction. I ended up getting physical on both of them. I fought the girl and punched him once in the face. Then I was done with both of them, haven't spoken to them ever since. Nowadays, if I were to run into that I'm leaving. That's the only single time in my life I've ever gotten into a physical altercation. I think it was still wrong. No needed. Both weren't worthy of my anger nor hurt. It's still wrong to hit people. I feel ashamed for reacting that way.
I told my current boyfriend about it two months into our relationship and he didn't care much. To my shock, he said both deserved what they got. We're now 6 months into our relationship. Isn't it shocking this wasn't a deal-breaker for him?
