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Search Results: relationship red flags
What do you think about the Tea app?
There's a controversial app called Tea Dating Advice where only women can participate and discuss (uploading pictures with names) men in their area. Talk about their experiences with them, add red or green flags, and even...
avery58
Guru Age: 27 Why don't people see red flags when someone has multiple baby daddy's or baby momma's?
One can be explained away.. when you're talking about being in a relationship with someone who has children with two or more other people... I think some red flags need to start going up...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why is it so easy for non-white women to overlook RED FLAGS of white men?
I remember on this very site, there was a female user from Trinidad, who said she looked down on local men and went into the arms of white men (many of whom were foreigners). The end result was that she got used for sex...
Anonymous
(18-24) What are some dating red flags you wish you hadn’t ignored?
Where do i even begin? I downplayed, I turned a blind eye, and I pushed past. I don’t recommend it My relationship history is one person long lol but I’m traumatized for life
DreamCrescent
Xper 7 Age: 39 What’s a red flag in a past relationship that your gut picked up—and you’re now grateful you trusted that instinct and walked away?
In my 20s i met someone online who had been deported from the US for overstaying a visa. We started a long distance situationship with the end goal, if we liked each other enough, i would sponsor him for a fiancé visa. We...
DreamCrescent
Xper 7 Age: 39 Should you let your partner go through your phone or is that a privacy violation?
I’ve been cheated on before, so honestly, I don’t mind if my boyfriend checks my phone every now and then. If it helps him feel secure, I’m okay with it as long as it’s not constant. I don’t really have anything to...
Anonymous
(36-45) Getting Tons of Attention on app – Real Interest or Red Flags?
Hi everyone! I'm a local Thailand woman and had an experience that honestly left me a little stunned, and I wanted to get some perspectives from people who might know more. I’m a pretty average-looking straight woman —...
judysan
Xper 1 Age: 31 Do you typically end things first in a relationship, or does your partner usually end it first?
In the relationships you have been in, are you usually the one to break things off when red flags appear, or do you typically try to make it work and your partner has broken it off first? Maybe it's an even split? So...
u Is it bad to sleep with him on the first date?
I’ve been talking to this guy everyday for a month. We connected on tinder. We get along nicely. We don’t have particularly deep conversations but there was chemistry in person and I slept with him on the first date. We...
Anonymous
(36-45) What does a guy mean that I gotta go lower to get respect from a good man as a tall woman?
My ex boyfriend years ago flirted with my friend (she dated him years before) right in front of me and I was so hurt and my bestie told me about it and she said I hit him. I don’t remember hitting him. I mean I liked him...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is it a relationship-ending situation when your boyfriend looks at another girl, or is it just human nature?
Let's say your boyfriend is looking at another girl while you're there. He doesn't say anything inappropriate, but you see his eyes wandering around. Some people say it's harmless and part of being human. Others think...
Anonymous
(36-45) Girls, Are guys who collect action figures a red flag?
I collect them because I grew up poor and can afford them as an adult. Im kind of ashamed of them because my dad makes fun of me horribly for it. Mostly robots like transformers or Gundam. I'm willing to put them away if...
Anonymous
(36-45) Guys, Would it be a red flag for you if you met a woman in her 30s and she's never had a serious relationship?
She's very attractive. Dated a few guys before but never actually been in a relationship and is quite inexperienced when it comes to relationships.
beenherebefore
Yoda Age: 36 Husband has intrusive thought to unalive me—should I be worried?
Sooo…. There are a lot of red flags in our relationship in general and I know I could hardly be a reliable source as a participant in this relationship… but… I guess I’m wondering if I’m overthinking this one or seeing...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do women know men like pure women?
Most girls have a past. Why couldn’t they just pick well in the beginning? I get relationships are complicated but they go for red flags 🚩or ignore them and wonder why they got what they deserved? Going after the bad boy...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is this a red flag?
A guy I have been talking to told me he and his ex had been together for 9 years before they had a long break up and saw other people but even then they stayed involved with each other every year even after the break up....
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do people say how much they need their partner at wedding speeches?
The advice here is always how no one needs a partner, but in everything from media to weddings and what not, people in relationships talk about how much they need their partner. Are those relationships red flags? Are...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is this a red flag in a relationship?
I saw my boyfriend liking and reposting posts that are about being sad and hurt by an ex.
Anonymous
(25-29) Is it a red flag to be close friends with an ex?
If one person is close friends with their ex, I could see how it might seem like feelings are still there and cause insecurity in a relationship. At the same time, after ending a long term relationship, they might see...
meepmeeperton
Xper 7 Age: 22 Do you think liberal attitudes on sex/relationships are ruining society?
I feel like now a days because of how liberal society is there's just zero intention when it comes to relationships/dating, people treat their fellow humans like commodities, due to dating apps both men and women have...
caitycat21
Xper 7 Age: 20 