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Do relationships work better when the man likes the woman more, or when the woman likes the man more?

From what I’ve seen, there’s usually one person who loves the other a little more, even in relationships that work well. It’s a bit of an uncomfortable topic, but which dynamic do you think actually works better (or has worked better for you)?

Some people say when the man likes the woman more, she gets treated really well but may be more prone to cheating. Others say when the woman likes the man more, the man feels appreciated and grateful, though sometimes he can grow complacent.

Curious what people think. The obvious answer would be a balance but in the case where balance is absent which way do you think tends to work better?

I’ve been emotionally committed to a guy for almost 3 years, I don’t think he ever emotionally committed to me though. We went on a 4 dates when we first met & never slept together. He’s stayed in touch with me on FaceTime through a deployment & him moving across the country. Emotionally were closer than ever, we talk for hours multiple days a week, but he recently told me he doesn’t want a LDR so I told him I’d move & he didn’t say anything about it. I know he’ll continue to call & share with me like I’m his girlfriend, but he isn’t moving this forward or willing to try.

I really love him so I don’t want to cut him out, but I don’t see another option except saying “Unless you’re ready to commit or give me real space in your life, please don’t call me”.

I’m looking for a man’s perspective, please give me advice or say what you think I should do.