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Anyone else terrified of being “second choice” to the people you love?

Bit of a vent, bit of a question. I’ve had a lot of friendships fade over the years — especially close female friends — because they get into relationships and slowly phase me out. No drama, no fights, just… gone. It’s...
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Why is my ex obsessively watching my stories but still not reaching out?

My ex and I have been no contact since September 2024, when he told me he was dating someone else. I blocked him for 3 months, unblocked in February 2025, and he viewed one of my Instagram stories, then nothing for...
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Why would an ex still be showing my pictures to his coworkers?

My ex broke up with me 7 weeks ago over over a very petty issue. I was devastated because I thought he was the LOML and this came out of the blue. He called me to see how I'm doing and told me he started a new job and was...
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Have you ever been in a relationship with someone new but not been over your ex?

Has anyone ever been in a situation where you’ve started a committed relationship with someone new, but you’ve still been very much in love with your ex?
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Has anyone ever been in a situation where you’ve started a committed relationship with someone new, but you’ve still been very much in love with your ex? Show More
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Why does this girl kept ragging on me for dating my ex boyfriend?

My ex and I only dated for three months and it didn’t work out. Well. Nobody felt bad for me because I knew how the guy was. The thing that was messed up was it was a friend’s ex boyfriend. I know, messed up. She dated...
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Cheating on a Jumbotron in front of the world, you think it was planned reveal?

I didn’t pay any attention to this at first. Then it started blowing up all over the internet! His now ex wife had to lock her Facebook account and other family members. The internet is still going wild. I think this was...
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I have feelings for an evil man help me?

About 5 months ago I was going out with this guy for a month and a bit. He wanted to see me everyday. We did fun dates together and he made it seem like he wanted to date me and get into a relationship. He was going on a...
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Im obsessed with a married man?

I met this guy whilst working at an old job. We were the only ones out the younger staff in committed long term relationships. He was a little older than me by 4 years and we became really close as we had loads in common....
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He ghosted me, went back to his toxic ex, and nearly 2 years later I still feel stuck. How do I move on?

I’m 19F, about to start my second year of college, but I’ve been emotionally stuck since high school. In junior year, a guy I liked was too shy to ask for my number, so he got it through a friend. We clicked quickly, but...
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Why do men always lose interest in me after a few months?

I (26F) want to understand why so I can fix the problem. Men (6 I’ve talked to in the past year, between 25-42) seem to like me at first, texting, calling, going on dates, and then within a few months it gradually stops....
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Am I crazy or are these signs? PT 1?

I’ve known my crush for 9 years. We used to be really close but a couple years ago he stopped talking to me because I was coming on to him a little too hard and he didn’t have the same feelings. About a year later he...
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Ran into my ex with someone new did I go too far?

I’m A few days ago, I unexpectedly ran into my ex at a takeaway. We actually broke up on good terms, and only last week he told me he still loved me and cared about me so seeing him with someone new came as a complete...
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How can I prove to my boyfriend that I’m no longer bothered by his past?

So my boyfriend has a way more exciting dating history than I do and his most recent ex is still around (they work together). On the other hand, he is the second guy that I’ve ever been with and I’ve cut all contact with...
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Are these characteristics of someone who can potentially be cheating?

So I recently saw his ex posted a photo of them acting all cozy at a wedding together (the wedding has the exact date from last Sunday) and this raised my suspicion that there might be cheating going on… I asked him about...
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So I recently saw his ex posted a photo of them acting all cozy at a wedding together (the wedding has the exact date from last Sunday) and this raised my suspicion that there might be Show More
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Any advice for getting over your ex?

My girlfriend broke up with me in Jan. of 2024. It's been 1.5 years, and I still haven't gotten over her. I still think about her when something related to her happens near me, like seeing someone in scrubs, etc. I want...
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Why fight so hard if there's no charges?

So I had an ex friend that had the deed to my house I was renting from this parents that was constantly sexually abusing me (ie anally raping) me over the course of 5 years. I never called the cops ok him because I had...
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Should I wait it out or move on?

I really like this guy, and he knows I like him. He even admitted that he liked me too, yet he had been cheated on in his last relationship and thinks he still isn't ready for a relationship cause he is worried something...
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Ex boyfriend never once said sorry?

So we dated for over a year, he was a drunk/drug addict who at the start said he wanted to do better. Throughout our relationship he hurt me countless times and it was most often associated with his drinking. He ended up...
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Help me... read details please?

My fiancé and I got engaged we have dated over 9 years and we grow up together as well in early child hood to adult hood we are close friends and best friends he got a sex change and is trans I thought I was pregnant as...
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Why did he do this? I just don’t believe him? Is he trying to manipulate me and make me feel bad for not listening to him?

I met a guy at a party months ago while on a trip. We’ve been talking for six months. I am currently visiting the area as my friends are there. I met up with him, we spoke and cuddled and kissed all day, and then slept...
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