Im obsessed with a married man?

[Anonymous]

I met this guy whilst working at an old job. We were the only ones out the younger staff in committed long term relationships.

He was a little older than me by 4 years and we became really close as we had loads in common. We formed a close bond. The relationship i was in at the time was extremely controlling, my ex hated me going out with friends and he insisted I work were I was working at the time because he also worked at this company and he could keep an eye on me. He'd constantly make me feel bad for talking to people and having friends.

My work friend tried to befriend us bouth but my ex hated him. I eventually broke up with him and he went off to uni. I told my work friend we broke up and he went all red faced. He tried to set me up with his friend who was really not my type.

He'd always talk about his girlfriend and she sounded like a really great girl and he really loved her but he kissed me. We pretend it never happened after I confronted him. He said it was a mistake and he and his girlfriend were just going through a rough patch.

I decided to leave my job and do something with my life and become a photographer. I met a new guy who i dated for a year but recently broke up.

My work friend on the other hand got married to his girlfriend and they seem very happy but he's still liking and reposting all my socials and so I did it back.

My ex boyfriend knew I wasn't quiet over this guy and we broke up.

I feel terrible for liking this guy because I'm not a home wrecker, he kissed me and I know he still thinks about me too. I bumped into him quiet a lot in town and he get chatting and he tells me how much he misses me and but we should meet up.

[avery58]

Don't do something you'll end up regretting. The vast majority of cheating men won't leave their wife in the first place. Second, you really don't want to lower your standards or values just for a man. Don't do to another woman what you wouldn't like be done to you. He showed you his true colors if he is willing to cheat on his wife anyway, it's best to cut him off. Just a suggestion, but you'd be doing yourself a huge favor.

[Asker]

Your right, I'm not that kind of girl and I wouldn't want to hurt another woman. That's why I left my work to push myself way from him.

I've been so focused on my career and he's the only man that listened to me and treated me like i was truly beautiful but obviously I'm still not good enough and he still chose his wife

[itsannalee]

Stop being bitchy, there are a lot single men in the world.

[Tom567456]

I've felt that way about a woman at work. I know she likes me although she's not single, and vise versa. I've had (intense) fantasies I'm ashamed of.

[dougeats]

go for it, married folks are the best lovers I find tbh

[CountryWanderer]

If he's unfaithful to his wife, he'll be unfaithful to you, too

[spartan55]

Yeah and... what are you asking here?

[Asker]

How do I stop

[spartan55]

You stay tf away from him. HE IS MARRIED. End of story.

[Anonymous]

Y’all both sound trashy

[RHK36]

Okay

[jahaims]

Trashy