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Im dating a married man, should I continue?

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Ok, so for some context, he's going through a pretty bad divorce (which I know is true, because I've met his family and they confirm it. They really like me). The divorce is really messy, and has been going on for the last 2.5 years.

Anyways, he hates her (and I dont blame him) and there's absolutely no chance of them getting back together.

I've never felt this way about someone. We work in the same industry, have the same interests, we have the same future goals, and he has been a good friend of mine since we met (and he hasn't tried anything with me during that time). I could actually see myself with him in the long run, which I've never felt with any of my exes.

My family know him and also really like him, but they're concerned that he's still technically married.

Is this something I should worry about?

Also this guy has recently come back into my life. He moved away for a bit, and we lost contact. We reconnected a few weeks ago.

Anyways I never thought he was coming back, so I've been dating on and off for the past year. there's been a guy that I've been on two dates with (we met online), and I was interested in him, but I dont feel the same way for him that I do for this guy. Would it be bad to call him and end it over the phone? Weve only been on two dates, we haven't committed ourselves to each other, but I feel like he deserves more than a text. Thoughts on how to end it?

Im dating a married man, should I continue?
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