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She assumed I'm a patient man that has self-control. Though she has expressed to eventually wanting to take things to the next level. Her assumption is wrong though. It's not about having self-control nor being a patient man. I don't have much sex drive; little to none. It's lower than even a reserved, shy woman.

I'm ok with making-out, holding hangs and hugs though. I still feel attraction towards women but I just don't feel like having sex. Our relationship is great without arguments. I just haven't told her that. I don't want to lose her though. I wish I can keep her. Am I really stringing her along?

After a few days texting on tinder we took it to snapchat and pretty fast went out for a sushi-date that ended up being like 6 hours long. She thanked for the date when we said goodbye and like 30 minutes later she sent a snap saying the same thing again and then asked for when I was free next time… which unfortunately was some time away but we made plans to make plans when we knew better.

She said “good night, sleep tight” and in the morning she said good morning. However, this hasn’t happened every day. But she has reached out to me on snapchat every single day except for a few days when I reached out to her first. And she has always sent a selfie and asked how I am or how my day is as a conversation starter or something other very random. She basically never uses emojis, but I realised that she isn’t an emoji-girl… but she always smiles and looks in the camera. She tells me to be safe at work and sometimes asks if work was good when I got home.

to me this feels like she is very into me since I feel like these things are thing I would probably do when I am very interested in someone… you know like finding any way to start conversation which easily becomes “how was your day”. But I mean, I’m biased…