Am I really stringing along my girlfriend for not telling her I'm asexual?

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She assumed I'm a patient man that has self-control. Though she has expressed to eventually wanting to take things to the next level. Her assumption is wrong though. It's not about having self-control nor being a patient man. I don't have much sex drive; little to none. It's lower than even a reserved, shy woman.

I'm ok with making-out, holding hangs and hugs though. I still feel attraction towards women but I just don't feel like having sex. Our relationship is great without arguments. I just haven't told her that. I don't want to lose her though. I wish I can keep her. Am I really stringing her along?

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Am I really stringing along my girlfriend for not telling her I'm asexual?
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