My girlfriend and I have been together for more than an year and recently I found out that she won’t have sex without getting married first. I was fine in the beginning. But as time passed by I wanted to get close to her.
I was fine being in the third base but she had to move away with her parents to a different country and to me it feels like a connection has been severed. There is absolutely no intimacy between us.
Although she has seen me fully naked (Still do). I haven’t seen her in that way and I feel like she doesn’t trust me enough. She says that she isn’t insecure so I’m confused as to what is wrong. I wouldn’t have a problem if she was still here with me, it’s just the intimacy has died and I feel sexually repressed as even when I’m going solo she sometimes says I jerk off too often although I do it 3 times a week. She thinks the our relationship can survive without the sexual aspects and says I can see her naked once we get married. However I don’t c myself marrying someone that hasn’t opened up to me in that way. I really hope that we can figure something out as it isn’t really easy for me to continue
I was fine being in the third base but she had to move away with her parents to a different country and to me it feels like a connection has been severed. There is absolutely no intimacy between us.
Although she has seen me fully naked (Still do). I haven’t seen her in that way and I feel like she doesn’t trust me enough. She says that she isn’t insecure so I’m confused as to what is wrong. I wouldn’t have a problem if she was still here with me, it’s just the intimacy has died and I feel sexually repressed as even when I’m going solo she sometimes says I jerk off too often although I do it 3 times a week. She thinks the our relationship can survive without the sexual aspects and says I can see her naked once we get married. However I don’t c myself marrying someone that hasn’t opened up to me in that way. I really hope that we can figure something out as it isn’t really easy for me to continue
