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Pretty darn sure, we met from fb dating. I tried to play it cool so we only shared our discord UNs, he gave his # but I hid mine when we spoke. I just found out his full name, he showed his drivers license when he had long hair & I got to see his whole name. When I got home & checked, there’s pics of he & this girl from soonest posing together in July all snuggly. Now, there’s pics from earlier this month with he, the girl & a bunch of other people posing in front of a Christmas tree. And they did the same thing last yr, part of the same friend group? I checked her IG & his, they don’t follow each other & don’t have their relationship status on fb. Again, it’s just the lovey dovey pics from April-July & the group Christmas pic from this month & last yr. They’re friends on fb & not on IG.. neither have pics of each other on IG. I honestly wasn’t really leaning towards meeting him a 2nd time, we had a quick dinner & he hugged me but didn’t mention meeting a 2nd time yet. I deleted my fb dating profile but have him on discord (last platform we spoke on), if he reaches out again I’m going to ask.

29F, have been told I’m pretty/attractive, have a younger face which is how I could be deemed as cute instead. When I tell you I’ve never been approached by a guy I’d actually want to date, I get attention from guys in person but it’s usually the questionable ones. I’ve been told on and off in the past that a guy I found attractive would look at me/found me attractive but never did anything about it (I’m too shy to also). I don’t have any in person friends as I work remote & sadly only rely on dating apps. The guys I match with I find attractive but not sure if I’m just unlucky (likely the case) or it’s dating apps as a whole but for some reason it doesn’t work out for a multitude of reasons. If those guys actually noticed me in person I would feel a little bit more secure. My thing is I’m pretty old in my opinion, as most people my age are married & have kids. I only have a str under my belt from a few years ago when I was in my early twenties & have been single since. I have this mindset that if I was actually attractive, I would’ve had quality guys lined up by now. Since that str, I’m very selective & am even quicker to stop something in its tracks if the guy does something that turns me off/isn’t what I’m fully looking for. I think dating has treated me very unfairly as “pretty girls” don’t deal with this, unless I’m missing something. And I’ll add this even though it shouldn’t matter that much in the very early talking stages: I don’t care about sex much at all, maybe overthinking it but unsure if that vibe is picked up on being so reserved.

TLDR: would you also think you’re unattractive if you’re almost thirty & don’t ever get attention from guys you’d actually consider dating?