Search Results: how do i keep his interest

I'm 27 and a Christian and basically grew up in my church. I love it. Last year, I met a guy named Isaac. He's a year younger than I am. For the past year we would say hi to each other but would be too busy to have an actual conversation. Two weeks ago, we actually had our first conversation in person even though we met a year ago. He said he wanted to get together and go eat so he asked me for my number. I gave it to him. I wasn't eager on texting him because I didn't want to get my hopes up. He text me that same day but didn't respond all last week. I saw him yesterday at church but he was just on his phone and he was looking at me and smiling. I thought it was weird because he would get close to me but not say hi, he just kept doing that... Yet he didn't text back ( and I text him once last week after he didn't respond and nothing). After service, he said hi to my brother and THEN said hi to me. He told me he was sorry to not text me because he has two fellowships he leads and two ministries he's a part of. Plus, he got a new job. He did text me more last night and this morning but I'm confused. Why would he ask for my number if he's acting like this?

Is he interested?

My fiancé keeps criticizing my body. He says I need to lose more weight and get laser and do something different with my hairstyle, etc. But then he also desires and wants me physically. We both don’t believe in pre-marital but he has stared and touched and expressed what he wants when he is in the mood. Not sure what to make of this. When he criticizes basically everything, it seems like he isn’t attracted to me and doesn’t want me but then he also acts very different when he is in the mood and he still wants to marry me so it is very confusing. I am working on myself as much as I can — I work out every other day at 5am, I follow the calorie deficits, I am working on laser — but he feels like I’m not doing it fast enough. And I don’t think I’m hideous or he wouldn’t want to marry me and I wouldn’t have multiple people interested but he still berates perpetually and at this point, I am starting to hate myself so just trying to get some clarity on his behavior to try and rationalize. Is this a normal behavior?