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Probably we all heard of one-child policy in China that was stopped at 2016. Personally, I recall hearing about it as child and suprised that people complied _because it really does unpleasant being told what to do for one's natural right. Having not known much as little girl I just felt chills over some having to enter jail for having a child.

Now, as grownup, I want to spat at Chinese government for controlling women's wombs.

They blamed decreasing birth rate back in the late 40s in the last century on women's education.

An unknown person on Weibo said infamously "So, no more foot-binding but brain-binding now?" The dude hit the bullseye! Why blame it on women?

Chinese government restricted reproductive rights by one-child policy, forced contraception, abortion and ligation particularly in the 80s and 90s.

Forced sizing of possessions for resisting the one-child policy was just plain tyranny.

China is a very toxic environment to grow up in, men are either giant babies or shivering quails (some exception are for the lucky ones) and women don't gets to shine fully with the restrictions.

Patriotism is admirable but loving your country when it only abused them is clearly manipulation higher-ups pulled or Chinese cultural teaching having to be separated from modern education.

So Chinese people, specifically women deserves better than a country that's fast to blame and exploit them.

As much as of a great power and production China holds, the leaders has to be splashed with lava over their heartless and inconsiderate ways.

I was scared that internet and Weibo is being tracked, are citizens pets? Clearly China had never gone out of the almighty emperor's period.

Sorry for anyone of Chinese origin, but how can you keep loving your country in such conditions?

I do choose immigration, when I reach, without a second thought with such a crazy government 🤢

I really do dislike people that can't be responsible. Men & women. I've seen numerous comments by guys here about not being responsible for their bastards. I've seen numerous comments by girls here about using abortion like birth control.

Are they NOT adults?

If you are not responsible at your job do you expect to keep it?

Do you expect your boss to say yeah you're a dipshit but we'll keep you anyway?

Do you expect your colleagues to say yeah you're lazy & good for little, but we'll do your work for you as well as our own?

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So why don't you TRY to GROW UP and BE an ADULT? Be a MAN. Be a WOMAN. Someone that society can look upon and say he/she is an ADULT.

Not a toddler with their diapers still on crying about unfair life & blaming everyone cause they can't do anything as an adult. Because they're an embarrassment as an adult?

You're adults. Fucking try to be one. BE RESPONSIBLE.

Or for women like this - get your tubes tied.

For men like this - get a vasectomy.

Take yourself out of the gene pool because if you don't contribute much any children are only going to contribute less to society.

I met this guy online a few years ago from a dating website. He is from England and I’m from USA, and we dated online at first for a little while. As time went on, he stated his mental health problems and how he couldn’t be in a long distance relationship anymore. I didn’t hold him back so he left, but we had been texting on and off throughout the years. He wishes me a happy birthday and holiday, stuff like that.

within the last few months, we reconnected a lot more like more phone calls to texting. He even admitted to realizing that I might be the girl for him since throughout all these years, no woman near him had made him feel the same as I made him feel. He even had a plan where if we meet up within the next 2 years then we can get married considering how much we both went through. I was flattered but concerned since I didn’t want to get hurt again if he wasn’t ready mentally, so I asked if he was sure. He said he wasn’t and then stopped talking to me for a couple of months for a mental break only to reappear as if nothing happened.

I asked him if he still wanted to do that 2 year plan and he said sure, we text somewhat often still now. But, he told me recently that he joined a dating app just because of boredom and was laughing at how women messaged him for sex. I was confused since based off what he confessed, i should be the only one he needs to be focused on. I’m just nervous now that he’s going to try to date other women before we actually meet up and then have his feelings confused on who he likes more, or just trying to have random encounters in the meantime. I mean I can’t control him but we do have a plan to meet up by the end of this year or next year so I don’t understand why would he do this. Please share your thoughts below, thanks.