Why do women choose to have kids with men who are unable to provide for his family?

[ManHater]

My mom and dad said, before you have any kids make sure you find a good woman and stay with her. Get a career or Trade. Buy a house and make sure you have all your bases covered before you even consider having kids. Yet I often wonder how come most men or women don't follow these rules? Women and Men having kids without having a good job still renting an apartment living paycheck to paycheck etc...

They say that women are the ones that make the choices when it comes to getting involved with a man, so I wonder why would any woman want to have kids with a man who in himself incapable of taking care of him self let alone provide for a family. I understand woman love weak pathetic men who they can dominate and control but at the same time feel like they are saving them.

[VanessaValentine]

They kinda don’t. None of those pregnancies are planned. They have make a bad decision by having unprotected sex. So the question really is why don’t they abort the babies. Some women choose to keep it because they wouldn’t want to kill it. Personally I’m not into killing babies either.

[ManHater]

Women need to understand that a child deserves to be brought into a world full of love and security. Why would any woman want to bring a child into this world knowing that it will be hungry, dirty, domestic violence in the house, uncertainty etc... When a man and woman have well paying jobs and are secure with a house and car where money is saved they don't have to argue about stupid things but can world together towards a common goal of raising good moral and ethical kids that have good family values.

[VanessaValentine]

Are you mad becuase some chick picked someone less financially stable but more better looking than you becuase that’s what is sounds like.

[ManHater]

Women need to understand that my body my rules do not have any bearing to bring a child into this world and subject it to a woman's own personal hell on earth. You want to keep a baby well you should be able to support it in a humane way if not flush it down the toilet. Why do you think there are so many single mothers?