Big girls are actually better than "average" ones!

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

Here is an article that will explain why we (as men) have been underestimating plus-size women more than way too much!!!

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Okay so remember when the whole plus-size "trend" went on in your TV's frequently played fashion commercials? Well, that whole "trend" was actually about body positivity as a visual protest against the brainwashing by US and western societies and their governments to assume that "fat=bad" and "skinny=good".

The governments and healthcare programs in first-world countries and all of the big-name gyms (Planet Fitness, LA Fitness, Orangetheory, Gold's Gym, 24 Hour Fitness) are controlled by oligarches, lobbyists, ex-politicians, and wannabe dictators like the "President of Raising Gas Prices and Forcing Mask Mandates" and the Queen of England. They pave way very proudly to their blood relatives who voted against a woman's right to vote; it's not like they aren't responsible for their ancestors' actions, they literally spare (or is "share" a better word?) their own pride with them.

The increased mask mandates and popularity of OnlyF*ns (responsibility of the Democrats and their Silicon Valley/Hollywood puppets) and the increased popularity of strip clubs and Hooters "breastaurants" (responsibility of the Republicans and their Vegas/Florida macho-kings) both are conspiracies to stigmatize so-called "overweight" women even more. The Democrat Party and Republican Party

To all the "non-skinny" people out there who are so worried about their health, it's like you're literally tricked into PAYING (sending your money to LOBBYIST capitalists and communists) monthly to try and lose weight. There really is no such thing as a "summer body". When will we all freaking realize this?? It's all a matter of opinion twisted and masqueraded as "facts" as an agenda forced upon the plus-size community.

It is a common misconception that skinny is good and fat is bad. While being morbidly obese is quite a different story, I'm talking about big people in general. Contrary to popular belief, food is NOT the only thing that causes weight gain.

Men, we should NOT be as picky as modern women are on Tinder and Bumble. I don't think women should be picky either--I'm not a raging sexist at all, I see both genders equally to death--but I think we need to start swiping right more on the women we've called "fat", "ugly".

Romcom and bromantic movies and shows have often portrayed skinny (not even average, but anorexic) women as the most ideal type. Instagram models and most TikTok models promote this 1920s-esque crap to this day!!! The irony is that many of the "hot/skinny" women we find attractive are only two to five points off the same body mass index score as the average "plus-size" women (5'4"/121# Addison Rae vs. 5'10"/210# Lizzo are almost 10 points apart, BUT Lizzo had been consistently working out and gaining muscle whereas Addison is all-lean with barely a medium-sized booty... I think their real BMIs are around 4 points apart from each other).

Muscle adds just as much weight as food does. So do most kinds of pills.

Big, "ugly" women are actually more likely to treat their boyfriends and husbands like kings. They want to literally overcome their "bad" side. They want to stay with them forever.

This whole "redpill"/"blackpill"/"alpha"/"high value"/whatever-type mentality all but obsolete. But if you listen to my advice, I guarantee that you will find a much better woman than just one who is using you for your money, car, s*x, dr*gs, etc.

[MCheetah]

I pretty much agree with most of what you said here. But I guarantee GAG is going to be trolly-as-hell with this one. I hope you turned Anonymous Opinions off on this one. ... You didn't.

I hate that the same people who try to argue anyone even slightly above "average" is some lazy gluttonous slob, while these same people are just as lazy as them, but happen to be skinnier. I did martial arts for years and ride a bicycle 24 minutes daily to and from work, while they sat on their asses all day with a fast metabolism, but try to argue that they're the "healthier ones" for being skinny and sedentary over being overweight and physically active.

And no, I'm not making any "body positivity" or "fat acceptance" points here, either. I just know people hate fat people in general, and try to excuse it with "it's all about health" while they're lazy as sh*t, eating fast food more often than anyone, drinking, and smoking; tobacco, vapes, or marijuana.

My TL;DR for some of the people on here is this: if you want to sh*t on fat people for being unsightly or unattractive, the fine. But stop bullsh*tting with the "health is important" crap. THAT is what I hate! These people don't give a DAMN about their health; they just happen to hide their lazy lifestyles better cause they're thinner.

And that's it. They can go back to the hating now.

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

You and athlete_7 are the only intelligent ones here

[KlinkyCoder]

Yeah, not everyone slightly above average is lazy or what not, but I can see where it's coming from because there are some people who want to actually force it or persuade it as a preference onto men, and if he doesn't comply he is socially shamed.

[MCheetah]

@KlinkyCoder
THOSE women are lazy, yes. But probably like 95% of overweight people don't want to be overweight. Even the celebrities who made their careers off of being fat jokes, like Al Roker, Megan Trainor, Adele, Rebel Wilson, Jonah Hill, etc, talked all the Body Positivity crap, but then lost all the weight anyway as soon as they could afford the personal trainers and spending $50-200 a day on healthy food.

MOST of us don't want to be overweight and do actually try to lose it. But then people on the internet say stupid stuff like "all you have to do is starve yourself to lose weight" (Calories in, calories out), or "Just go jogging four hours a day and spend three hours a day doing cardio in the gym, seven days a week, for two years, and you'll lose 20 pounds" as if people are robots and consistently doing something insanely hard with little to no results is going to be easy or not demoralize.

[bamesjond0069]

there's more to weight gain than food and exercise:

1. Lazy

2. Uneducated

3. Just dont care about looking good and health

4. No self control

These are the only options. All fat people MUST be at least one of these. All are major personality defects and enough on their own to disqualify someone for dating. Who wants a skinny girl with no self control, or who doesn't care if she is very unhealthy? I wouldn't. No add fat... ladies, that doesn't make it any better. Smh.

[Marianna546]

Not all skinny women are unhealthy!!! Some are born that way

[bamesjond0069]

@Marianna546 thats not what im saying at all. Idc if someones skinny or fat... if they eat a diet consisting of doritos and twinkies id not be interested in dating them. If i was forced to date someone who are like shit id prefer the skinny girl who ate like shit.

[Marianna546]

Well I don't eat doritos often just on rare occasions lol

[bamesjond0069]

@Marianna546 yeah i eat mostly fruits veggies and meat no processed foods and work out and live an active lifestyle. My ideal woman would do the same or at least close. No fat girl is doing this or she wouldn't be fat for long.

[Marianna546]

Lol i am exercising every day

[bamesjond0069]

@Marianna546 you trying to date me or something? Lol

[Marianna546]

No just stating facts🤷

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

My stepmom literally got bigger from cancer pills

[Marianna546]

That's awful

[bamesjond0069]

Thats terrible that happened but its not possible to just gain weight spontaneously. You must, under all circumstances eat more than you expend to gain weight. There were no fat prisoners in Aushwitz. What often happens is when someone experiences health problems they change their eating and exercise habits. Often pills will change your appetite via hormones that just make you hungrier and you dont realize you eat more and there you have it.

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

Tard alert

[Apple1996]

Nothing wrong with guys liking chubby girls. They deserve love too. Seems like so many want a perfect looking skinny girl but those perfect girls have terrible personalities. Best to date for love and personality then looks.

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

Another thing too, the one thing worse than a guy fatshaming girls is a girl doing the fatshaming...

[Apple1996]

Yeah a lot of people in general fat shame. It really isn't cool like some people can't help their weight so I feel like there is no reason to judge

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

Some people are just uneducated and it's hard to change them... it's possible though, I'm good at lecturing

[Agagagagaga]

Yes. They are “uneducated” for thinking someone is a fat ass when they waddle down the street.

[Apple1996]

@Agagagagaga there's never a reason to call someone a fat ass. If you don't like how they look then look away from them. If you think they're attractive then ask them out. Like there is just no reason to hate especially if you don't know the reason why they are are heavy. its truly being uneducated cause you don't know them.

[Vegasrunner]

@Apple1996 Being heavy is a choice a person controls every morsel of food that they put in their mouth

[Apple1996]

@Vegasrunner for some people it's in their genes or they have med conditions like pcos

[Vegasrunner]

@Apple1996 Thats a small statistical amount eveb if true. If those same people burned more calories than they took in then they wouldn't loose weight?

[Apple1996]

@Vegasrunner it's not the same for them. Just like how some skinny people can't gain weight no matter how much they eat. Everyone's body is different

[Vegasrunner]

@Apple1996 You're saying that but aren't providing any facts or info to explain how. Losing weight isn't that complicated. Burn more calories than you take in.

[midnightmoon05]

@Vegasrunner I agree.
Anyone with normal health, eats right, burns more than they take I’m, they have no worries with their weight.
The US culture feeds crap into their body, it’s your choice… blab blab blab… take no responsibilities of their own well being.
Many also use the excuses of having babies and gained weight from. It’s all BS. Most women who are healthy lose lots of weight from caring for their kids/nursing their kids.
Then the next excuse is… well I have “medical” conditions… bunch of dogs chasing it’s tail. Many have healthy problems for obvious reasons since they are kids. The food being fed to them. Later on… they have health issues… then the big drug company comes in to place… US on meds. Instead of taking care of themselves by eating better, exseicing … they take the east way out… with meds then side effects… blab blab blab…it amazes me how these sheep are so clueless.
I find it better for those who can see this and go far and beyond the govt limitations.
Few examples I hear from US women.
1. I will not let my daughter go near that baster - the child raised by a single mom. The child grows up and repeats.
2. I just want to be a house wife. I don’t want to work.
3. I have been on this new diet program … blab blab blab…
4. I lost 2 cm. I better buy new pants. I have been eating salad.
(Every night they eat a gallon of ice cream while watching brain washing shows)

When we travel and see how others live… they actually work together with their husband as a team to make a better living.

But who wants to change? The goal of US is to make sure everyone is comfortable and under control.

[Apple1996]

y'all do realize some people are just happy with their weight and body and don't feel the need to lose weight. Like If someone is happy I feel no reason to shame them or even comment to then about their weight
Not everyone wants to be skinny. People can be beautiful even when they have some weight on them. That's just not feeling on it. Like I'd happily be with a partner that is happy in their "fat" body then constantly being insecure and wanting to be the skinny.

[Anonymous]

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*SHAKE*

*KLUMP*

Why, hello everybody!

I AM BEAUTIFUL

THEY ARE BEAUTIFUL

HE IS BEAUTIFUL

THIS BIG FAT PIG IS BEAUTIFUL!

I say, I say, I say, I'll sit on you!

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

So you're using the ugliest of fat people to represent a whole? There are ugly skinny people out there too

[Opinion Owner]

Clearly, you've never seen the Office

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

Yes I have seen that episode and you're clearly a retard who hasn't gotten anything positive to say

[_deeznuts]

some of these people are hella toxic... but there is absolutely nothing wrong with being overweight. Hot damn, there are most definitely some big and attractive girls. It's true that it's not the healthiest lifestyle, but not all overweight people gain weight from just not working out or diet. There are plenty of diseases people are diagnosed with that cause them to gain weight, including cancer. Not only this, but poverty is also in increase to being overweight because processed foods are cheaper.

[RollingCamp]

From a health perspective, there is a lot wrong with being overweight...

[_deeznuts]

@RollingCamp yeah, health wise there is, but Im talking in regards to beauty.

[Lliam]

Quite a conspiracy theory there. LOL

THICC isn't my thing. I guess I'm brainwashed.

I prefer fit, slender, average to below average height women with normal proportions. Not skinny or lean but not thicc. Something close to 5'2", 32", 23", 34" with a 27" underbust measurement (26F) or 34", 24", 36" (28F) would be my ideal.

I like women who are soft, squishy and jiggly. But I don't care for a giant ass or thunder thighs.

I don't care for skinny fashion models, either. Give me slender, flexible, soft, round, nicely tapered thighs.

It's just a matter of preference. Each to their own. I wouldn't shame a big girl, but I wouldn't give one a second glance or date one.

[loveslongnails]

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, or sometimes the "beer-holder". I don't care what a fashion magazine tells me, or a social "trend" tells me, or anybody else tells me... I like what I like. I find attractive, what I find attractive. The only thing I find physically attractive about the girl's pic is her face. She could be a marvelous person, and I'd find that beautiful, but I don't find her body beautiful. But if you refer to my initial statement above, there will be a "beholder" somewhere who does.

[hahahmm]

I'm old enough to remember when 99.99% of women were fit. The first time I noticed fat women staring to spread like a zombie apocalypse was in early 2000s. I can think of two things contributing to this:

1. Shaming was banned. In earlier times people were responsible to their community/neighbors/society to maintain certain standards. Now it's "whatever makes me FEEL good" so obviously if laying in bed for 18 hours/day and watching Netflix while eating junk food feels good then it's going to happen more often. Back in the day people didn't think like that. Another way of putting it is that people have less personal responsibilities today.

2. Processed foods are much less healthy than they were 30+ years ago. And women do WAY less physical labor did they did back in the day plus they drink more.. so duh, they're going to get fat & fugly real easy.

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

I'll take the healthy BMI girl with the 'golden ratio' figure and a pretty face over the overweight girl with a balloon figure any day. Sorry but that's human nature, marketing and fashion and media brainwashing are comparatively recent trends. And let's not forget that historically, such 'brainwashing' cuts both ways, like how at a certain point after the enlightenment era, it became seen as desirable to be overweight as it supposedly signaled opulence. We're also seeing the modern "fat positivity" movement shaming men who prefer healthy-weight women to overweight. How is that any different to those "beach body ready" adverts, or those stick-figure runway models of the 90s / early 00s?

[exitseven]

I dated a girl who was 5'11" and was big all over. She and big thighs and big shoulders. She could probably beat up a lot of guys. Some of the kids had a mean nickname for her. I used to tell them I would tell her what they said and she would beat the shit out of them and I would laugh at them. They would be afraid of this.

I thought she was beautiful. She was big and athletic. She was big all over. Had large features and big boobs. She was not ashamed of her size and just accepted that she would never be a petite little girl.

[ethanallen]

I have fucked a big girl. She was probably 250 pounds. I am 170. The sex was fucking awesome. She was wild in bed and into everything. Still, she wasn't a woman i was going to go out in public with and have people think she was my girlfriend. Come on. It's a sexual diversion for fun. Like granny sex. Yeah I once fucked an amazing looking 80 year old woman who had a pussy that felt like an 18 year olds. (she had one of those vaginal rejuvination surgeries and fuck do they work.

[Avicenna]

Finding a market and serving it is not "tricking" people into buying something they don't need, especially when it's about better public health, which improves the quality of life as well as lowering medical expenses.

Deceiving people into thinking there is nothing wrong with being obese is simply wrong.

[msc545]

When you are sitting in an ER waiting room waiting to see if your "plus-size" girlfriend is going to die or be permanently disabled from the MI or diabetic crisis she just had that is in part due to her excess weight, you are going to be sorry as hell you ever got involved with her.

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

I know a former plus-size mother who literally gained back all her weight (and worse) just from having cancer. It was not junk food at all

[msc545]

Kind of the exception and certainly not the rule.

[love_conquers_lust]

No. I’ll take the responsible ones. Having an ailment is rarely an excuse having one myself. If I was overweight, it would make my life and my condition even worse. Doctors have a rather large obligation to help the disabled because it is imperative they don’t take on other health conditions, their lives are hard enough as it is.

[Pohjolan]

There is plenty of studies and evidence on the risks related to being overweight plus it screams "I have no self-discipline!".

Americans are fat because they choose to be. Its not like other western countries don't face the same first world problems yet Americans are the ones whom eat as if they were the ones with free healthcare.

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

Another brainwashed sheep

[Deltruse]

For me, it depends on the way the fat looks on them. For example, there's a kind of chubby girl I'm acquainted with who I think looks very cute, and I think of them fondly ( though I haven't felt any sexual attraction toward them yet). Her fat looks fine on her, and I assume she tries to stay healthy.

[Bluemax]

Kindness and compassion are evenly distributed amongst people of all different weights.

It is pointless and silly to attempt to tell people what they should and shouldn't be attracted to.

[Radford]

Dude hell no. I am a classic physique body builder and I am a man of value. I don’t want a woman who is obese, and lazy. That’s like a woman saying I don’t want a broke man. Everybody has standards.

[EllaNella]

get a fat girlfriend if you want to, but some of like to be able to touch their toes & see their own genitals

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

Fat girls > Hooters girls. This isn't the 1980s anymore when skinny with big butt and boobs was perceived as the only cool thing. Most of them aren't lonely and are with the most attractive guys (despite what the media brainwashes you with). THE BIGGEST simps are guys who are "average" (not ugly or disabled) and talk to a girl just because she has the looks, the butt, the boobs.

[EllaNella]

i don't care about any of that. i care about health and about loving my body enough to not let it deteriorate at a young age. that should be equally important for men and for women

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

It's easier to take a big girl to a gym and she won't cheat.

[EllaNella]

the fattest women i know is also the only cheater i know. so your first point is definitely not true.
& if you want to slim down your fat girlfriend, then why say that big girls are great and go on this anti gym rant in the first place?

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

Societal body standards in the west are the most toxic I've ever seen. People don't care like that in countries like Jordan, Indonesia, Armenia

[EllaNella]

i'm not talking about whats beautiful and what's not, i'm not talking about beauty standards. i am purely talking about health. and while that women you posted may have good bloodwork today, in 10 years, she probably won't. not even mentioning her joints and probable mobility issues.

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

Weight itself is not going to cause such issues later in life. There are other situations to add into context. You are highly delusional and you use "health" to demonize women in general. You really are hating your own gender when you do this, do you not realize that?

It's also not just junk food that adds weight. If you have read my entire blog post you will know what other things contribute to the addition of weight. I used to swipe left on plus-size girls but my own father taught me a lesson about making this mistake.

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

Do you support such ridiculous "skinny" ideas like eating disorders and 30-day fasting? Because that's even worse than obesity. Besides, this post has NEVER endorsed obesity. I feel like everyone needs to workout by walking/fastpacing/jogging around their neighborhoods. I highly encourage situps and pushups, if able. Gyms are good if you're planning on building muscle or strength, but not for losing weight. I've literally gained more weight from hitting the gym

[msc545]

Go live there

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

@msc545 I wish, but don't have the money to travel

[Anonymous]

It depends. In my personal experience, all the big girls I have known all wanted the hottest guys. They hated guys like us who were a little chubby. In high school or college, they only dated the tall fit guys only. If they are pretty while chubby then they are highly hostile towards average guys. So it is not always about being big.

A lot of times they are okay being the second girlfriends of attractive guys than dating an average once.

[Keepitanomonous]

I've had a girlfriend on the heavier side and she's great! i wouldn't date a girl that was too fat. Although i do like her chubbiness lol.

[HawkPerception]

Your part about men should not be picky just screams "I have no standards"

[bakajana]

This is absolutely bullshit. U pretend to be treated as a king as an 'apology' for their looks? This is TOXIC man this is not love. U say they're better and then you're the first one to degrade them by saying they're ugly. You motherfucker

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

I used to be like that against fat girls.. Learned over this mistake. My dad who is literally 46 years old taught me a lesson

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

I am literally attracted to fat girls

[Pudsmucker]

Those that are on the heavy side do watch what we eat. Some of us also try to keep fit keep active.