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Search Results: first thing to notice
Why would a guy act so hot and cold?
So there's this guy at work, we were assigned to be partners for a while and the connection hit off. We would tease and get to know more about each other. We had a lot of laughs together and you know the look that someone...
Anonymous
(18-24) What is first thing you notice about a guy?
Are looks an automatic yes or no when meeting a guy? Does personality matter as well?
lumberfish
Xper 2 Age: 42 What atracts you to a girl?
What atracts you to a girl? What is it that makes you notice a girl, her looks, the way she acts, talks. What is the first thing that peaks your interest?
Anonymous
(30-35) A guy I know will stare at me from far away, but when he stands closer to me, he avoids eye contact and/or talks/is friendly to others, but not to me?
A guy I know--he's a nice guy. I've always been nice to him and he's always been nice to me whenever we have to work together for class projects. When we have to be around each other. However, I've noticed quite a few...
Vivian222222
Xper 5 Age: 27 My fiancés family are tearing us apart. How do I play this?
So they’ve always been friendly to my face but over time I’ve noticed a few things and it has made me wary of them. - When I got a male assistant in work and the dad said to me in front of my fiancé “oh is he single”....
Anonymous
(30-35) This guy ignores me but then looks at me all the time! What the heck?
I've suspected that this guy (high school age) has had a crush on me for a good solid year, at least. If i reach out to him in any way, I get no response. Email, adding him on facebook, notes - nothing. No response...
Anonymous
(25-29) How do you handle asshole neighbors?
I live in the suburbs now. I'm originally from a bad inner city neighborhood, bit live in a low violence good neighborhood now. The one thing I noticed right off the bat, are these guys who got money, got too much to say....
blissinanarchy1
Xper 7 Age: 27 Is putting in a 2 week notice supposed to stay between the boss and the employee?
I’ve been working at this job for 2 years and figured it’s time for me to move on and work somewhere different. It’s my very first job so I wanted to stay professional and put in a 2 week notice. There’s various...
Anonymous
(25-29) 
Genuinely what's the problem with a show like She-Hulk? Genuinely what's the problem with a gay in a marvel movie? Why is this considered propaganda?
Genuinely curious for these things. I enjoy Marvel movies for the most part. I enjoy seeing kick ass women on screen. I literally can't stop thinking about love with someone other than a woman that looks like She Hulk...
Loveisgirthy
Xper 6 Age: 31 Why do people say look’s don’t matter at all when they actually do?
To me, to be honest looks matter. They’re just not everything. I know the old saying you can’t judge a book by it’s cover. Even though looks/appearances can deceive, they will always be the first thing we notice. The...
Counterclocking
Xper 7 Age: 46 Guys, Is my boss attracted to me? Or is it just that we have a lot in common and we are now good friends so he acts this way?
We were on the same friends group, but not that close before he got promoted and became my boss. After that, we started working closer together and we discovered we are very much alike. He is a great guy but seriously...
Anonymous
(36-45) Guys, What's the first thing you notice on a female?
What's the first thing you notice on a female, lads?
MakeUpModel91
Xper 5 Age: 34 I have lost my attraction to my girlfriend because of constant complaining and letting herself go, and I feel like a jerk?
We have been going out for about a year and we get along really well, she is extremely kind, and we have a ton in common. I love her, but it’s becoming a struggle for me. I know a lot of this is out of her control and...
Anonymous
(30-35) Maybe I’m overthinking things but I know it’s something?
Ok the guy I got the car from didn’t tell me he hid a scent bag for the car to smell good. But like I’ve never seen someone put one inside of the car cup holder like in the backseat I pulled the thing down to put my son...
Bracefacesummer
Xper 6 Age: 32 Why would a man randomly give a girl words of encouragement?
I started talking to this older man. He is in his 30s and I’m 24. He is established and well off in his profession and I admitted that he was somewhat intimidating to talk to. But once we talked he was really funny,...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is it ok that my girlfriend showed her boobs to another girl in a bar?
My girlfriend is in love with me, and I with her. We are completely exclusive. When she is with her girl friends she pecks them on the lips but it's harmless and I don't mind. It's a cute girl thing. (I don't get it but...
TheQuestioner215
Xper 2 Age: 28 Is it unreasonable to ask my girlfriend to make our relationship more of a priority?
I have been in a LDR for over 6 months and I will be seeing her in just a couple of weeks. Things had been going very well for a while, but I am starting to feel neglected by her. She lives in Colombia and has a...
djg3665
Xper 5 Age: 48 How would you handle an attempt to reconnect after all of this?
So a few years ago at Uni, I dated a classmate named L (I know, I know). Her close female friends were already friends with me before we started dating, particularly one named D. A few months go by and my relationship...
When_It_Reigns
Xper 1 Age: 32 Can gas cause unusual bladder feelings?
I've had a bit of a unusal feeling in that area off and on last week. It's a lot better than when it first started, but it's going long enough that starting to be concerning. I mean it's not painful but I get a weird...
Anonymous
(36-45) 