Search Results: does he like me or my body

First of all, I'm 5'8 but I'm not insecure at all. So give it to me straight, I promise I can handle it.

So I have this theory that girls mainly like taller guys because they generally feel more protected around tall dudes. But this feeling doesn't always hold much weight in the real world.

I agree that with the average 6'3 dude vs the average 5'8 dude, the 6'3 dude has a weight and reach advantage if they were to fight. But I'm not talking about averages.

Let's say you had to pick the most attractive guy out of two guys to date.

Guy A: He is 5'8, but is bigger and stronger than most guys. He does strength training and MMA and has been doing so for a long time. He can beat 99% of guys since most guys have no training whatsoever. And just to clarify, he is not steroid-like bodybuilder type big. He is natural and athletic.

Guy B: He is 6'3, lives a mostly sedentary lifestyle. He might do a sport that's more cardio-based like cycling or whatever. He's pretty skinny, but not to the point you think he is sick. Just average skinny. He's not a pussy, he is willing to fight when push comes to shove. He just has no real experience so against Guy A he wouldn't stand a chance.

You are objectively safer with Guy A.

Let's assume for the sake of this question, that both guys have same facial features and everything. Just a different body-composition and height. They also have the same personality, just different skills.

Also please ignore other factors. For example: "Guy A probably lives in the gym and I wouldn't like that"

I can also understand if you are a girl who is taller than 5'8 it might be a turn-off. If that's the case please assume Guy A is your height or an inch taller and add the same amount of height to Guy B.

Looking forward to hearing your opinions!

So I was taking classes to prepare for a late entry into university, mostly I was refreshing math skills

A group of classmates and I became friends and always sat together, this included this very cute lady who was early twenties (I was mid twenties)

After a few months I sat beside her randomly and we talked a lot and were getting on great, then at one point she was taking off her hoodie, and underneath she was wearing a tight shirt and she looked incredible, I guess I looked for a moment too long, because I realized she froze, I looked up to her eyes and we locked eyes for a good few seconds and then she just finished taking it off

We continued like nothing happened, she kept talking to me and all that

We would text a bit too later but I didn't make any moves because I wasn't in the best place in my life, and also I wasn't sure if she liked me, but I can be oblivious

I think about this because I am worried I might have come across as creepy by looking at her body, which I try to never do, here I didn't even realize I did it until it was too late, I was already looking at her

Another part of me is wondering if she was ok with me looking and if that was a sign that I should've tried talking to her more

I later saw her in my school (her and I both went to the same university after) and she was happy to see me and we talked again like the good old days