Does "my friend" like me or is it lust?

[Astrocake]

my friend of 3 years often flirts w me i think.
last night he asked me to come over and hangout with him. but he is 2hrs away from me. he was even about to drive to my house at 3am.

he always mentions coming to my house but never mentions what we will do... he just always wants to see me..

he even sometimes ask me "u miss me?"
and it confuses me because we're friends. why is he talking to me like this? or is this normal?

sometimes he will talk about my ass or joke about how my body has changed since i met him..

is this my friend? or a list situation?

[Anonymous]

Based on the information you provided, it's possible that your friend's behavior could be motivated by attraction or lust rather than just friendship. Some of the signs you mentioned, such as flirty behavior, frequent mentions of wanting to see you, and comments about your body, could be indicative of romantic or sexual interest.

However, it's also possible that your friend is simply being playful or friendly, and that his behavior is not meant to be taken as a sign of romantic interest. It's important to communicate openly and honestly with your friend about your feelings and expectations for the relationship, and to listen to his perspective as well.

If you are interested in pursuing a romantic relationship with him, you could try expressing your feelings and see how he responds. However, it's important to be prepared for the possibility that he may not feel the same way, and to prioritize your own well-being and emotional boundaries.

Ultimately, the most important thing is to communicate clearly and respectfully with each other, and to make choices that align with your values and priorities.

[slatyb]

Tell him that if he wants to see you he should plan a proper date and ask you at a reasonable hour.

[MementoMori777]

Does he ever bring up anything other than body at random times?

[Anonymous]

It might not be just lust, he might actually be sweet on you but is in the friend zone.

[honestanswersonly_]

Hard to tell really. Need more info

[Astrocake]

ok , one incident 2 years ago , i had to spend the night at his place because i was too tired to drive back , he joked about how he never slept beside a female friend before and kept asking how i felt about cuddling.. we never did but he brung it up twice

[honestanswersonly_]

Why didn't you cuddle with him?

[In_Trance]

Lust