AM I A SEXIST? PT. 1

[anon1903]

What Makes A Person Sexist

Unfortunately, GaG algorithm knows I'm a feminist and likes to put it on everyday timeline — some guy being sexist and totally not seeing it.

It's the gender envy, first of all.

No gender has it easier. If there are privileges, there are consequences. My brother who can stay out late til eleven is also more likely to be victim of false ra_pe claim, I can get a free meal and a free drink but I'm also more likely to get rap_ed somewhere down that route. If you're lucky (and careful), these things won't happen to you. Stop holding the whole world responsible for that.

Secondly, it's how you word it. If a guy says he's more athletic than me, I'd say yeah. But he makes weird gestures, flexes his biceps or the lack of, says he'd charge at me like a bull if I say yes, says things like I shouldn't be doing physical word because I'm delicate as hell... Yep, that's where I draw the line. With black chalk. On his face.

Thirdly, there's no gender differences in terms of friends. You either have a good friend or you don't. There's no "your womanly friends just listen to you about your boyfriend drama because they like gossip"... Everyone does. Gossiping is a good pastime, an unhealthy one. Like I said in my last take, give less fucks about how people perceive you and your partner. Lmao.

Men and women can't be friends — casual sexism. A more healthy way to word this out would be "I can't be friends with a woman. I'd always get romantically or sexually attracted to her." That's fair. Don't dump your fellow brothers in your quicksand or whatever, with you, because you've never had an opposite gender friend.

Fifthly, why in lord's name do you say "men get abused too"? Isn't it enough to say : men get abused. Period. There's no too. It's not a contest. You can talk about men's rights and issues and exploitation without "getting even with the feminazis" like geez man, don't use your friend's case to justify hate. That's disgusting.

And please, get out of your head, stop thinking every person who walks on the street wants to know if you're attracted to them. A woman dyes her hair blue and asks men on social media if they like it? Go ahead, tell her your thoughts. But if a woman has posted a yoga pants picture and she's proud of her body and she's showing it off... Either like it and move on or don't like it and scroll on so your Instagram algorithm doesn't recommend random women on your browsing feed. Simple as that. Nobody cares about your body. She's not the only girl posing, there's a sea of them, who cares? If she wants to battle for attention, let her have a feast. Don't like it? don't watch it; an important lesson learnt from YouTube uncensored Yaoi.

Lastly, staring is creepy. Cut it out. If you like it, glance for three seconds and turn the f away. You don't need to visually shame me for having boobs. And I certainly don't need "she wore the skimpy top for my male gaze" BS. Like no sire, I do that for female attention. I like to make question their sexuality. It's fun. Try it. Maybe you'll also enjoy a little bit same sex physical contact.

by anon1903

PS. If you gotta ask people if your content is sexist and offensive, just don't post it, because 9/11 times it is.

[exitseven]

Okay, I agree with everything you said. I try to see them (females) as people first and women second.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[SnowedIn]

Bravo. Nothing to add. Well said.

"...9/11 times..." Lmao

[anon1903]

I have a friend and an ex who just worded it out poorly. They weren't sexist, far from it. Just not very articulate.

[SnowedIn]

Thank you for MHO!

[Snakeyes7]

I have a couple questions.

1. What is keeping you from going out at night? Is there a barrier at home that prevents anyone with a uterus from leaving after 11pm?

I'm half kidding but statistically speaking, men are far more likely to be victims of violent crime, even the feminazi Clementine Ford has admitted this.

Also the FBI defines rape as: "penetration, no matter how slight, of the vagina or anus with any body part or object, or oral penetration by a sex organ of another person, without the consent of the victim." Implying that anyone who is penetrated will always be the victim. As far as the FBI is concerned, a woman can have her way with a man who is passed out drunk and she will be the victim. My point is we really don't know what the real statistics of rape are since it is difficult for women to commit it by definition.

2. Have you ever considered that the reason why people say "men get abused *too*" is because they think that feminism, a movement that claims to be fighting for the equality of the sexes, seem to ignore the other side of the equals sign?

If you focus too much on one side of the equation and refuse to look at the other, you might find yourself soaring past and away from the equal condition.

Other than that I agree with you.

[anon1903]

Women aren't allowed to go out past ten. For safety and security reasons.

[anon1903]

I won't consider her victim. Everyone can get raped, including men.

[anon1903]

It's the lack of consent, sweetheart.

[anon1903]

Fuck your definition of penetrations.

[anon1903]

You can just say "men get abused" and we'd, we as feminists, will listen. There's no "too". You shouldn't compare. Imagine a guy getting hit and his dearest friend typing out a too, as if he'd care about fucking gender studies. It's so dehumanizing.

[anon1903]

Tell me, Mr jokester, if a woman did overtime and was walking down the street past ten, and got molested, what'd you say?

Answer : why was she out in the dark? That's where dark people be lurking.

And I said people, because many awful ones are lurking, waiting for their prey. Men get robbed, women get raped.

[Snakeyes7]

>Women aren't allowed to go out past ten. For safety and security reasons.

Is that enforce by law in your area?

>I won't consider her victim. Everyone can get raped, including men.

Good, I am glad you don't. My point is that the laws doesn't give a shit what you or I think on the matter.

>It's the lack of consent, sweetheart.

I agree with you.

>Fuck your definition of penetrations.

That's not my definition, that definition came from the Federal Bureau of Investigation.

>You can just say "men get abused" and we'd, we as feminists, will listen.

That is fine but the problem is, what is feminism going to do about it? Nothing because the feminists who have the power to make laws and are in charge the media are psychopaths who have no one's best interests in mind but act like female supremacists and tell us that they are for equality of the sexes. All you have to do is look at the phrase "the future is female" as opposed to it being equal

>Imagine a guy getting hit and his dearest friend typing out a too, as if he'd care about fucking gender studies. It's so dehumanizing.

I think he would take into consideration into who he is responding to. Maybe he's responding to some whackjob who says men can't be abused because men are bigger and stronger than women, I find that far more dehumanizing and I know many people in real life who actually believe that.

>if a woman did overtime and was walking down the street past ten, and got molested, what'd you say?

Actually, I would be condemning the molester, as you should so stop putting words in my mouth. I don't know anyone who would condemn the woman for being out at night especially considering a) she just left her job and b) being out at night is not a crime.

A defense like that certainly wouldn't hold up in any court and no judge worth their salt would take such an excuse.

>Men get robbed, women get raped.

Correction: Men are *killed*, women get raped.

[anon1903]

It's enforced by the society. And yes, the law will support you if you're a woman and got molested. But it wouldn't matter so much, cuz being forcefully touched already has dehumanized you.

[anon1903]

I doubt women alone can rule the world.

[anon1903]

For sure, anyone can get raped.

[anon1903]

I think being killed is less scary than getting raped, but that's just me.

[anon1903]

There's a very good book on Rapists and Women, called They Never Learn. You should check it out.

[Snakeyes7]

>It's enforced by the society.

And how does society punish you for breaking that rule? The worst I have seen happen is say something like "I wouldn't do that if I were you" but that's it.

>being forcefully touched already has dehumanized you.

Yeah, that's why molesting is illegal and those who are guilty of that are shut away for a long time. I am not sure what else to do for that.

>I doubt women alone can rule the world.

I agree.

>I think being killed is less scary than getting raped, but that's just me.

I suppose it all depends on what happens when you die. From what I understand, a rape victim could still get back to some level of normalcy over time and with therapy, some parts I am sure you can't fully recover from.

>There's a very good book on Rapists and Women, called They Never Learn. You should check it out.

What is it about?

[anon1903]

You know what? I'm too tired. You win.

[Anpu23]

Anon1903 I am an anti-feminist I think I have made my case very well as to why. Statements like "but I'm also more likely to get rap_ed" is why guys feel the need to include themselves in the dialog, as many women women use the statement that it happens to them more often to dismiss the seriousness of the statement. Think something like "I just cut my finger," "Oh yah, well I just jut my leg" it isn't showing sympathy it's diminishing the others hurt by saying how you have it worse (by the way according to modern studies men and women both are and do at roughly the same rate. See https://www.amazon.com/Women-Who-Rape-Female-Predators/dp/1507702612 for a good study)

Anyway good post. Thanks for the information.

[anon1903]

It's true. You can do one thing, sweetheart, teach men around the world consent.

[Anpu23]

Why don't we just teach people about consent. There's no reason to gender it, no reason at all.

[anon1903]

All right

[Kaneki05]

This gonna have a PT2? I thought this was great and made all the right points already!

[strateguy632]

i liked the bit men stop staring