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I’ve noticed tyst if you aren’t saying you just want sex or you want to be in a relationship, there’s a lot of sleig View like it’s a game or something. in my opinion if you say you want to get to know someone— it’s the most honest way of communicating.

Unless you really are just looking for sex, how does anyone know if they want to date a person let alone be in a relationship with them if they do 🤷🏻‍♀️ if you still feel the need to get better acquainted I don’t see the problem.

It is funny how propaganda works bc I know when people say this to me I can still hear it as a euphemism for sex BUT only bc people will use it that way & not bc I think there’s anything inherently wrong with _really_ just wanting to get to know someone.

I’m never on the hunt for a boyfriend so if I meet someone I want to get to know better that’s all I know I can honestly say. And I think that should be good.

people don’t take it well it’s as if I’m letting them down easy or being deceptive.

Seriously what more can you ask of a person lol “ I’m interested in getting to know you better.” I think this is much better than jumping into boxes just bc for no particular reason..

Of course if someone knows they want to date then go for it— It’s just not my approach and I find it funny wanting to get to know someone is Suspect 😂

So since living with my fiancé and his family we all agreed I’d. Pay a certain amount a month for household bills. I had no issue with the amount and that’s has been the same amount since I’ve been here.

But today for some reason I’m getting charged an extra $50 because I use the washer and dryer…. I don’t even spend $50 at the laundry mat…but I have no rebuttal I just simply said okay.

Since I’ve been here his family has been very $ hungry. I’ve been here for 4 months not even 3 weeks into me being here I paid rent…not even 3 FULL WEEKS! I had no job yet, didn’t have my car anymore because it broke down.

His family has judged me from what I wear, what I eat, what I do, when I leave, how I leave etc. They judged me but didn’t bother to help me find work or even help get me to an interview. I don’t expect for them to do anything for me but how are you going to speak on someone’s situation (negatively at that) but not try to help them lol.

At this point I want don’t want anything to do with his family & now it seems like my fiancé doesn’t even stick up for me anymore. I’ve been really unhappy. Since being everything is all about his family and what they want. We haven’t been on any dates, we can barely take a walk without his family expecting him to do something first.

Tell me what I should do because my best friend says to leave and I want to but I know if I do my relationship may be over.