My sister’s friend and I really get along and vibe well, to the point where my family had noticed. We’ve each initiated some physical touch type of flirting and she remembers the smallest details about me and gives me lots of eye contact. Even when I met her sister for the first time, the first thing she said was “she loves you” (she meaning the girl I’m talking about).
it seems she is distancing herself a bit from me now though and I don’t know why. I was a bit more forward with my flirting last time I saw her (placed my hand in her knee) but other than that I didn’t do anything to provoke a reaction like this. In my gut I can feel we have a great connection, but maybe she’s scared that her friendship with my sister could be damaged
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Talk to her about it. Have courage 😊
Yes it’s just that I don’t want to put so much pressure on her to decide :/ maybe it needs more time to develop
You’re afraid to pursue her, aren’t you? Fear is normal and healthy for everyone. I once invited a male friend to share a room with me. It’s the bravest thing I’ve ever done. It was very awkward and embarrassing when we caught up, we couldn’t make eye contact. But I’m still standing and the experience hasn’t put me off trying for other men since 😊
At the end of your life, on your deathbed, you’ll regret more the road not travelled than the ones taken
You’re right. I’m just trying to spend more time with her 1:1. We’ve only hung out alone one time so far
Be brave. Remember, she wouldn’t be out with you if she wasn’t interested.
On the next date, you could try going for the kiss..
She totally ignored my last text message though. Either it’s a little playing hard to get, or she’s trying to tell me to back off
Probably playing hard to get.
Sometimes, I’ve hesitated to get close to a guy I had feelings for, because mutual friends said he accused me of being a gold digger, I doubted his interest in me because our values seemed different (his elite and mine more in line with taking care of disadvantaged people). Also, he kept blocking me and was indirect about his interest, which made me uncomfortable, being a very direct person myself and being Autistic, I didn’t understand.
Yes, I think that’s the only time I’ve hesitated at all. Also, I felt at the time I was interested that he could do better. Back then, I was struggling with bad depression and anxiety and a few other things.