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Growing up, I was a major outcast and suffered with a lot of severe mental health issues. I had interests that were obsessive and unusual, such as an interest in fire alarms, phone systems, and intercoms. I missed a lot of school due to mental health reasons that required hospitalization and residential treatment. I hardly fit in with anyone at school, and girls especially didn't pay any attention to me. I was also (and still am) short in height at 5'6". I missed a lot of developmental milestones that I reap today.

I was never athletic in school. I was not involved in sports really. I was, however, involved in boy scouts up to age 16 and transitioned into the fire explorer programs.

Socially, I have always struggled. I was hoping adulthood would be better, but it turned out to be worse and a nightmare.

I am 27, almost 28, and I never had a real girlfriend. My absolute biggest regret that kills me to this day is not experiencing young romance. I so wish I was able to form those memories with a girl when I was young who was around my age.

It wasn't until I was around 19 when I had my first kiss with this girl I found repulsive to me. I tried dating her, but it just didn't feel right. She just was not attractive to me.

Also, there was this girl named Izzy that was around 15 when I was 18. Although we cuddled and I kissed her, she became a transgender man and resents me. There is no going back there.

When I was 20, I lost my virginity to another 16 year old girl during a weekend fling. She did not want anything to do with me romantically after that. In fact, I was convicted of stalking because of her (long story).

After that, all I have had is online things with girls where they rejected me upon meeting me in person because I was unattractive to them.

I haven't touched a girl in 7 years. Meanwhile, all my peers and former friends I have known are married and have kids.

I want a woman without a romantic past where we can be each other's first loves.

SHORT VERSION:
They messed up my coworkers order of "no tomatoes" and thought simply removing the tomatoes would fix the issue, even though you'd still be able to taste them, and she wanted a new order instead.

FULL VERSION:
So, my coworker and I went to lunch today at a non-fast-food burger place before the start of work. She ordered a burger meal with no tomatoes on the burger. The one I ordered never has tomatoes on it.

After a 12 minute way, we got our orders, but hers had tomatoes on it. She told the lady at the register she requested no tomatoes on her burger. I heard her say it specifically, and she said it in both Korean and English. They just forgot. So the lady took back the order and was simply going to remove the two tomatoes off the burger and give it back to her. My coworker said no; she wanted them to make a new burger. The lady at the burger place didn't want to at first and thought she was being unreasonable or acting like a Karen.

Keep in mind, this burger place is not cheap. A meal - burger, fries, and can of soda - costs about $15 American. Secondly, there's a Burger King just two blocks down the street. (It's Burger King, though. Yuck.) And thirdly, she requested NO TOMATOES.

I had to step in and explain to the register lady that my coworker asked for no tomatoes, it's not her fault they screwed up on her end, simply taking the tomatoes off would not be good enough because these style of burgers are juicy and usually leaves the bun a bit soggy, and if she's allergic, then the place is putting her health at risk and she could sue them if she got sick eating the burger with the removed tomatoes, but still tomatoes juice inside the bun.

After making them realize THEY were in the wrong, we waited another 12 minutes for the right order for my coworker, and the register lady gave a half-assed apology for the issue.

Who was right and who was wrong here?