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At the end is my initial question.

I’ve heard it said you can tell a lot about a guy by his date idea.

So I’m kinda thinking that depending on what he suggests to do I can tell more about him as a person.

So what kind of date in your opinion should be a “Yes” or “No”

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I’m a 21 and I’ve gotten to know a guy who is 38 years old.

He really nice, has no kids, no drama, pretty successful in life, and TBH he’s kinda cute. He’s quieter, tall, and easygoing.

From everything I’ve been able to find out about him he’s always been really focused on his career and just never really prioritized having a girlfriend.

Well he’s made it clear he likes me…

Pleez only serious answers!

This question is one where I have no way of answering myself but I was curious to ask regardless.

I think we are pretty much left to on our own, to sort out this side of life through trail and error— if even that. I think many people will go to their grave not even having rally been safe if what they needed emotionally. I recall reading when I was a kid that children need a minimum of 13 affectionate touches a day. I told my my great grandmother (who actually was the one affectionate person is ever known) would jokingly tap me 13 times every morning on my head 😂 I don't know where in the world they came up with that number it’s just funny bc it’s so ridiculous but was said with authority.

Anyhow I feel like a lot of people would be calmer snd happier and more helpful to others live healthier & probably longer, if that side of life was smoothed our. It’s really difficult tho to know what you need bc emotional needs - not material replacements - tho ubiquitous are unique & hard to market and so we don’t get much advertisement for them. Plus it’s not really something considered cool to talk about so I tbh k we get used to thinking of something basic as a special need for certain people who think about that stuff bc they need it.

im wondering how many of you give thought to your emotional well being & if you are aware of being content or feel wanting, etc etc