Do you agree that women will never truly love you for who you are unless your are 6'2 or taller?

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When women are in good positions in life and have the capability to get commitment from men, they always choose a really tall guy to be their husband/boyfriend. Hell, when we look at past marriage data, it was found that when women are the breadwinners and better educated than the men, they often picked a male who was very tall to be their spouse. While women who were financially dependent and not so great position in life were more than likely to give a man that was considered short (5'9 and under) a chance at a LTR.

Do you agree that women will never truly love you for who you are unless your are 62 or taller?

Thus we see that women see intrinsic value in a male once he is tall and he does not need to compensate by bringing wealth and status to the table for her to consider him good enough. A male who is tall and loses his job will still be seen as having value and worth in a females eye while a male under 6'0 will be viewed as a liability and someone to replace if he does not find employment soon.

MCheetah · Accepted Answer

6'0" is usually the minimum. Not 6'2". So I'd agree if it was 6'0" and up.

But to a lesser extent, a woman will pretend to love you, if you're rich. I guess that's not what you're asking for, though.

I will have to disagree with this one though, cause 6'0" and 6'1" qualify and gets a man in, even if nothing below that (in the "women's zone") does.

Chthou95 · Accepted Answer

Not just height alone. But a girl definitely won't love you for just you. You need to provide in a lot of different ways to be loved. If you don't provide, you won't be receiving love

coachTanthony · Answer

Some women will pick any ol dope as long as he is over 6 feet. They will state exactly what they want in a guy but if he isn't 6 foot or taller then forget it which make his height the number one thing they care about and that in itself usually bites them in the ass with divorce.

TommyWiseau69 · Answer

Being 6'2 or taller is a bonus for girls, but the population would literally die off and our species would come to an end at some point if women only went and have kids with men 6'2 and taller. That would mean that within like 5 - 10 years if women were to only have kids and marry with tall men, more people would be single and more people would die off cutting down our population. With this pattern continuing we could reduce our population by half by 2050 if women solely went after tall guys and more men that aren't tall dying off that are single. You can basically thank the gigantic amount of men that aren't tall for continuing are species. Although tall height is related to biologly, specifically evolutionary biology as females seek out the biggest and strongest males to breed with, it can't apply to our species. So if a woman only wants tall guys and rejects guys for their height, she's a fucking idiot and just wanting to fuck up our gene pool so don't mind her. Despite women being married to men that aren't tall, which is like 95% of women, they will still find tall men more attractive. Its eye candy to them, there's nothing you can do. Its the same way as how us guys like nice ass and tits as well as curves on a girl. There obviously has to be one group of men that are the most attractive, that group is just tall men.

God_of_Thunder · Answer

That doesn't even make sense.

You're saying a woman won't love you for who you are, unless you meet a superficial requirement. If a woman loved you for who you are, then they wouldn't care about something as superficial as height, which would therefore make the physical trait meaningless.

If she requires you to be a certain height, then she's not loving you for who you are; she would be loving your height, instead. The very existence of any physical requirement makes it impossible for her to love you for yourself. It makes her love conditional. Your conditions are completely contradictory.

Pinay_ako · Answer

🤣 men who ask stupid shit like this are obviously 🙄 shallow and never been truly loved by a woman! You can be 5’7 or 6’3, but if you keep approaching the same type of women with the same attitude/same negative mentality, you will get the same results over and over! You want true love but you don’t want to give it. You think being a gentleman and chivalry is too unmanly or whatever stupid titles you use degrading other men who are actually GOOD! NOT all women will want to date a tall man over 6’2 if they’re successful career women to add to their already made life. So don’t be using made up “data” that less taller men are liability to women as husbands or significant others… Height ALONE won’t guarantee you LOVE!!! Nor weight!

bennies_819 · Answer

For the immature and childish girls out there they will say yes it is true that height matters to them but for real women we do not care if you're short or tall as long as you have a good job have a good personality you can still get a woman even if she does prefer a guy that is 6 ft but you have to have a good personality a good job and whatever she likes and if she does not like you to even go ahead and move on to the next person and don't waste your time on that woman or girl because you think your height matters which it doesn't you are very valuable just like any other valuable guy out there you just have to find somebody that sees what I see.

Snsl153 · Answer

Oh not you again! You may have posted this anonymously, but I know who you are, because you're always whingeing about how "short" you think you are, even though you're close to 6 feet tall, and yet you're always feeling sorry for yourself. Enough already, we're tired of it.

IMuser · Answer

Reverse the situation and you as a guy would do it too. If you can get a girl whom you consider attractive, why wouldn't you? You have all the means to get so.

Ultimately, it's personal preference. However society does have some kind of influence on what you prefer so you need to be sure of what you want.

Some women can be vary of their public reputation (comments like "why is she with such a short guy" from her friends and family. ) Similar for men ("why is he with someone like her when he can get someone better").

You need to be sure what you want and not be ashamed in wanting it.

Kaytiee · Answer

It's such bs in my opinion lol. I'm 5'5 and my boyfriend is 5'3 I love him to pieces, I would do anything for him, I don't see him as 'less of a man or an 'embarrassment' he's the man I love.

Also before some idiot says he must have 'money', no. I earn more, he's a common laborer who left school early.

Aerissa_Jade · Answer

Can't say I personally care, my husband is only 5'9 but those that like taller men, should probably try to find those 50 foot tall ones, that would be 'interesting' to see how that works out. I mean if taller is better and all that... take a growth potion.

I find those tall guys are kind of a pain to kiss and hug. Always having to reach and stretch and they always have to bend over... seems like later in life they'll have back problems.

slatyb · Answer

Absurd. Only one man in 25 is 6'2 or taller. If the majority of women were fixated on finding a partner that tall, they would mostly have to join a tall man's harem or stay single. Anyway that's not how love works. I'm 5-8, doing ok but I still have to work, and I've never had any trouble attracting and keeping a partner.

amandat94132 · Answer

I blame the media and modeling agencies for the height obsession about men, also those dating shows where the men are very tall and women rather short Tall men are more of a cultural thing in the US

My husband and I are both 5'9" I wouldn't want it any other way

Those women you mentioned are socialized , brainwashed by the media

Anonymous · Answer

This is one of the dumbest misconceptions incel forum participators have. No, women can love a "short" man, and it's relatively common. Personally, I'd date a short male, as long as he was an appropriate age. Even assuming the "all women have a strong height preference" accusations are true, they still usually don't go that high. It might be pretty difficult, but not impossible, if a man is 5'7 or below, and that's it. Also, how tf are these incel types calling women sensitive if they're deeply hurt every time a female stands near a man who's taller or has a stronger jawline than them. Most of the time, they just choose to believe it's only their height or whatever trait they can't change, and it's now impossible to ever date any female ever. That way they don't have to try to improve.

Dawty · Answer

Although there is some truth to this take, it is overall very stupid. First of all, money beats height ;)
Second of all, how tall a man should be will depend largely on how tall the woman is. Yes, all women I know, myself included, prefer taller men. This is just one parameter out of many, but it is preferred of course and so what.

Anonymous · Answer

i didn't "pick" anyone because of their height alone. i didn't care about height etc, i cared about the way he treated me and others. i know it must pain you to hear that. i had no "expectations". but that doesn't mean others can't. that's their choice and literally doesn't effect you at all.

Haha456 · Answer

thats because you only go for hot young girls with plenty of options. this why you're complaining about not being tall enough. Maybe lower your standards and you will find a woman who will appreciate you for who you are.

Dnc_21 · Answer

Dumbest question I've come across in a long while... Yes women prefer taller men but they can fall in love with men of all heights... maybe being under 5'6 is a big turn off for them but under 6'2? Wth? There's like 5% of men or less that fall under this category in the whole world

SolitarySolace · Answer

I don’t think women will ever truly love you at all. They just want what you have. And when they get bored of it, they cheat. Luckily no one is dating/meeting anyone. If you’re single, you’re single and you’re gonna stay that way. I know this because I’ve been single for almost 8 years now. Planning for another 8

MysteriousDarkness · Answer

I'm 5'4 and I have never let it stop me. September will be nine years with my girlfriend. There are guys who have dwarfism that are in a happy relationship, happily engaged or happily married.

You could get limb lengthening surgery to make yourself taller but most wouldn't recommend it.

A lot of women do have a preference when it comes to height but it's not a must or they don't have a preference at all.

NathanDavis · Answer

oh damn... I'm inch short from being six two now I won't ever be truly loved for who I really am that sucks, so close yet so far...  what if I get some kick ass big boots though... ?

SenseiSeptred · Answer

I am 6 foot 3 inches and I don't allow women to date me only for my height, and if a short woman asked me to reach for something in the grocery store to attempt to check me out, I lift her up onto the top of the shelf to sit on it to teach her not to do that.

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