Why does our society consider crazy ex girlfriends "Cute"?

[CasaNorba]

I asked this question before but I was not happy for the fact that it only got 2 answers for some odd reason. anyways as weird as I admit to be I love listening to ASMR videos at work when I get overwhelmed and feel like stress is finally gonna succeed at creeping in my life and recently I came across these ones...

I honestly enjoyed them but at the same time they make me mad thanks to all the bad experiences I've had with the crazy bimbos I used to click with in the past.

oh and dont get me started on how people would possibly react if these were guys in these videos playing the role of "the crazy ex boyfriend who kidnaped you." I bet these video would probably been flagged from left to right and being removed in no time and possibly people calling these guys the modern day Ted Bundys and other nonsense.

so I always wondered why do people underestimate and worst of all think that crazy ex girlfriends are cute and something to be entertained about? why do people refuse to see them as what they really are? CRAZY, tragic and dangerous.

[BullShark]

I had a psycho crazy ex girlfriend and I for one, don't think of her as cute, or even remotely anything related to it. To me, she's toxic, insane and narcissistic, and I'm glad we ended up breaking up because as soon as we did, even though I was heartbroken at the time because of the abuse she was responsible for, but I also felt a massive relief in my chest as well.

A crazy ex IS a crazy ex, and anyone who says that they're cute are probably equally as toxic, maybe still have feelings for them or never had a crazy ex in their life and don't know what a truly crazy ex is.

[CasaNorba]

man brother, I'm so sorry about that, I hope you are ok and at peace now. but you're are right, those who think is cute either never had a crazy girlfriend or probably never had a girlfriend to begging with. cause there are dudes like that who have no standard, just want to rush into a relationship but never think what they get themselves into

[BullShark]

@CasaNorba not to worry man, I'm all good now. It's been 3 years since we broke up, so like I said, I'm ultimately glad we broke up. I know what I want now and I realized it's not her.

And yes, such guys who just want to rush into a relationship without checking the red flags just want the thrill of having an attractive girl as their girlfriend and they don't care what sort of person she is as long as at the end of the day, they know they're getting laid at whatever cost necessary. Simps.

[sirderpsalot123]

It always amazes me when I hear a girl reminisce about the time she hit her boyfriend for coming late, but not before destroying all of his things... pretty sure I'd be in jail if I did that, lol...

I don't have the answer to this question.

[CasaNorba]

your reproductive system is the actual answer. talking from experience of millions

[Dazed0N0Confused]

I don't consider it cute, I consider it time for a god damn restraining order, learn how to use a gun proficiently, changing all the locks & getting a bigger dog.

[CasaNorba]

I would never disagree with this. but of course I'm pretty sure that I'll get ridiculed if was in the situation and perform all of the above because everyone here still believes that women can't be a threat

[Dazed0N0Confused]

Not everyone, just people who refuse to accept the reality that EVERYONE is a potential threat.

[annabananna]

The people who think it’s cute never had a crazy ex.

[CasaNorba]

or never had a girlfriend at all

[Abchahaha]

They are cute only if:

_They fake it.

_They exist in fiction.

_In the extreme case if you are a bit cold: the "she is not mine" situation.

Psychotic girlfriend and boyfriend are very very dangerous, not just physically but mentally as well, they can bring you down and make you fail in life and feel miserable.

[FilmGuy93]

For whatever reason, people think that line-steppy women aren't dangerous because they are less of a physical threat.

[CasaNorba]

they need to get with one

[FilmGuy93]

Yup... People also have a tendency to be really naive and believe the best of others, especially women, about things like false rape accusations.

People have absolutely no problem lying about all kinds of crazy shit for lame reasons.

[Avicenna]

I sure don't, and I have a Borderline ex who is really crazy

[CasaNorba]

I feel your pain. I was actually raised by someone who has borderline

[Avicenna]

Ouch!

[ChiTown33]

Probably because they've never really had to deal with one setting fire to your house.

[CasaNorba]

they deserve one. maybe this will wake them up and get a taste of reality

[inthewasteland]

It doesn't, but it is less judged for similar reasons a female teacher–male student scandal are regarded with less moral outrage.

[anon1903]

They think girls are harmless lmao